It’s return marks a 10th consecutive year of Gogglebox where regular – but much loved – households share their hilarious reactions from their living room to screens across the nation.

Returning to the new season is fan favourites, The Delpechitra Family; Lee and Keith; Anastasia and Faye; and The Daltons.

New additions to the Gogglebox family but still returning for the season are Adam and Symon; Kerry and Izzy and baby Ruby; Matty along with his two sons Malik and Lyon and uncle Jad; Tim and Leanne; Milo and Nic; Kevin and Bob; and finally, Jared and newest additions sisters Mia and Bree with their friend Lainey.

The 20th season is in fact the second season to air in 2024, after Gogglebox first aired in February 2024. 

Sadly, the Silbery family hasn’t been full since 2022 after Grandma Emmie was diagnosed with dementia in late 2022. Since joining the show with Kerry and Izzy in 2016, the matriarch of the Silbery family has made families laugh.

“It’s been a tough few months watching my grandma deteriorate before our eyes,” Isabelle previously wrote in a heartfelt statement on Instagram.

“I’ve been supporting Mum, who has all the weight on her shoulders as she makes some big decisions for Emmie’s future. What’s best for her now is that she is safe and happy in permanent care just up the road, where we visit her every day.”

Since its inception, Gogglebox Australia has snagged a staggered six TV Week Logie Awards. Additionally, it has been nominated for a seventh time at the 2024 AACTA Awards, which is set to take place February 10.

It has also inspired the spin-off Celebrity Gogglebox Australia, which is an annual one episode special to raise awareness of ReachOut Australia.

Gogglebox Australia returns to TV screens on Wednesday, August 14, 2024 on 10 and 10 Play. For more on what’s happening TV, check out our comprehensive TV Guide. 

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In this way and so many others, carers frequently sacrifice their own needs, both present and future, to their own detriment. Palliative Care Victoria’s Dignified and Respectful Decisions initiative offers a lifeline, providing free resources that empower carers with the tools and knowledge they need to honour their loved ones’ wishes while also taking care of their own wellbeing.

What palliative care services are available? Spotlight on DARD

Palliative Care Victoria’s groundbreaking “Dignified and Respectful Decisions (DARD)” initiative provides free, invaluable resources to help carers navigate complex care decisions on behalf of loved ones who can no longer make decisions for themselves. Funded by the Commonwealth Department of Health and Ageing and the Victorian Government Department of Health, the free resources inform and support families and substitute decision makers.

Carers can also gain clarity around the various care plans available, understand how to work with aged cared teams and access wellbeing support articles. There’s also a glossary which includes medical terminology, helpful definitions about advance care planning and directives, end-of-life care terms and other relevant information. These free resources also provide support for carers in their own lives, with detailed self-care and wellbeing strategies to ensure they can continue caring while looking after themselves both now and in the future.

Practical advice on carers self-care

Self-care for carers might seem contradictory, but DARD aims to transform the carer’s experience. The initiative’s free resources are designed to help carers anticipate future challenges and implement effective strategies to support them through this often-challenging journey.

One supportive hint involves building a network of trusted family members or close friends who can assist with some of the caregiving tasks. There are also smart strategies available to help think through various immediate and long-term decisions that need to be made.

Another beneficial tactic that DARD sets out, is to set aside some time each week for activities that feed your soul. This could be as simple as meeting a friend for a movie or going for a walk in your favourite park. Importantly, there are resources to help point carers in the right direction should they feel overwhelmed or just need to discuss their situation.

Collaborative decision making

Carers often find themselves in situations where the values and preferences of their loved ones need to be honoured in the face of complex medical information and choices. It’s in this instance that respectful and considered collaborative decision-making with healthcare professionals is crucial.

DARD’s free resources provide a framework for these essential conversations, ensuring that carers are well-prepared to engage with healthcare teams effectively and respectfully. By leveraging these resources, carers can feel more confident in their discussions with doctors, nurses and other healthcare providers.

They’re empowered to ask pertinent questions, understand the implications of various care options and advocate for the best interests of their loved one. This collaborative approach allows for dignified and respectful decisions, while it helps to lighten the emotional burden carers, as medical decision makers, so often carry.

More help and support for carers of older Australians

For more information on how Dignified & Respectful Decisions (DARD) can help you or someone you know, visit www.dard.org.au.

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The door of the warehouse I worked at opened, and I looked up. Seeing a man walking in, I gasped.

Half his face was missing!

I rubbed my eyes, thinking I was imagining things, but his appearance remained the same.

He must’ve been in some sort of accident, I thought sympathetically, trying not to stare.

In the following days at my job as a packager, I found out his name was Joseph.

He seemed friendly enough, but I was too nervous to speak to him, in case I said the wrong thing.

But, one day, I was having trouble working one of the machines at my workstation, and he came over.  

Using a type to voice converter on his phone, he asked if I needed a hand.

“If you don’t mind,” I said, smiling.

Unfortunately, he couldn’t fix it.

“It’s probably best to move to another station,” he said.

I went to grab my stuff, but he stopped me.

“Allow me,” he said, scooping it up.

What a gentleman, I thought.

We started chatting regularly after that.

Every day, Joesph, 41, would bring me a drink, and he’d make me laugh until my sides hurt. I loved his sense of humour!

We spoke about serious things, too.

He told me he wasn’t long out of a 10-year relationship.

“It was on and off,” he said.

“I’ve been in some bad relationships, too,” I told him.

I never asked Joseph about his face, but one day he brought it up.

“I was born with a condition called Otofacial syndrome,” he said “So, I was born without a jaw or chin.”

He told me that when he was two days old, he was given multiple surgeries, including a bone and skin graft, as doctors tried to construct a jaw for him, but as he grew, his body rejected it.

His birth mum then put him up for adoption and although he was taken in by a loving family, he’d dealt with judgement from others all his life.

“I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that,” I said.

Over time, I found myself becoming drawn to Joseph, but my feelings confused me.

So, when he asked me on a date to a comedy club, I didn’t go.  

I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship and worried what people would think, but as much as I tried to push aside my feelings for Joseph, I couldn’t.

When he asked me out again on Valentine’s Day, I said yes. We went dancing and had so much fun.

“I’m glad I came,” I told him.

We continued dating after that.

We’d go to places neither of us had been before and do activities we’d never done.

We also went to a lot of restaurants, even though Joseph couldn’t eat anything. He could have solids but they had to be blended, as he ate through a tube in his stomach.

“I just want you to be happy,” he told me when we dined out.

In time, I introduced him to a few of my family and friends.

Most were shocked but they soon realised how happy Joseph made me.

My mum, Janice, worried I’d have to spend my life looking after him.

But once she realised Joseph was fiercely independent and wanted to look after me, she fell in love with him, just as I had.

Then, in 2020, a year into our relationship, Joseph and I started discussing marriage. It was something we both wanted.

There was no big proposal or ring. We just decided one day to go and get a marriage licence.

While we were there, the lady issuing it had a question for us.

“Do you want to get married today?” she asked.

My heart leapt in my chest. It felt wild and spontaneous, but something made us say yes!

We wouldn’t have been allowed a big do during the pandemic anyway.

So, in front of strangers and casually dressed, we said, “I do”.

We moved in together afterwards.

I’d lived with my mum before and when I told her I was married, she was shocked.

“You two are crazy,” she said. 

“Maybe,” I laughed. “But we’re in love.”

Often, when we’re out in public, people will point and stare.

Sometimes they even take pictures.

We try to ignore them but occasionally Joseph will confront them and call them out on their ignorance.

We’d rather people come up and ask us questions and try to understand.

Joseph knows he looks different, but he’s still a person with a heart, feelings and a brain.

He should be treated with respect, just like anyone else.

I don’t even see his disability anymore.

Sometimes when I’m making a drink, I’ll automatically make him one and put it in front of him.

When I realise he can’t sip it, we both burst out laughing and Joseph pretends to toss it back.

His ability to stay positive is one of the many things I love about him.

When we can afford to, we’re going to renew our vows and finally have the big white wedding we’ve never had.

I want the whole fairytale, as that’s what marrying Joseph is to me.

We’ve spoken about children, but now we’re both older, we’re more drawn to the idea of adoption.

It would mean a lot to Joseph to give a child, who’s in a similar situation to him, a loving home.  

It would mean the world to me too.

Whatever path we decide to take, we’ll take it together.

Our love for each other is eternal, no matter what others say.

I was attracted to Vania from the first time I saw her, but I thought she was too pretty for me. I was just happy with being around her and us being friends. But over time, feelings developed on her side, too, and she started to see that I was a good, honest man and I’d always be there for her and protect her.

Joseph, 42, says:

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Walking past the bathroom, I caught a whiff of something that made me gag.

“Seriously guys,” I said crossly as I entered the lounge room. “Please can you use the air freshener I bought?”

It was during the 2020 COVID lockdown and I lived with my boyfriend, Matthew, and a male housemate in a small flat with only one bathroom.

With all of us working from home, this meant we became a little too intimate with each other’s toilet use!

So, to try and remedy the problem, I bought all sorts of air fresheners.

But the ones out there were synthetic and I didn’t love the idea of the spray getting on my skin, or even breathing it in.

None of them looked that pretty either.

“I wish there were products out there that you could proudly display in the bathroom,” I told Matthew.

It made me think that I could potentially create my own solution to our stinky toilet problem.

The science bit

I did an online essential oils chemistry course.

At home, I experimented to find the perfect mix of natural essential oils that nullified unwanted toilet smells and replaced them with a citrus scent within 30 seconds.

I learned that if I used a sugar cane alcohol base, then with a few drops of the oil into the loo after flushing, they would sink to the bottom. The fragrance would then rise, trapping any odours.

Next, I designed a sleek recyclable glass bottle for it.

Keeping it classy

My friends and family tested it and loved it, so I made 1000 bottles to sell. I posted about it on social media and gifted 20 to friends who also posted about it and word spread.

I called it No. 2 – a cheeky reference to Chanel No. 5 – with the tag line “Keeping your reputation intact”.

Within two weeks, I’d sold out completely.

“Wow,” I said to Matthew. “I’m onto something here.”

“You’d better make some more,” he said.

So, I found a manufacturer and I sold out again four times over.

One busy day, I sold $11,000 worth of products!

By December 2023, I sold my software business to focus on my post-flush perfume drops full time.

Now, I sell them on my website and social media pages to people all over Australia and New Zealand.

They’re used in boutique hotels and I do guerrilla campaigns where I sneak into the bathrooms of fancy restaurants and leave my bottles there.

The response from happy customers has been great.

“From a married man that shares a bathroom with his wife, this is a must-have,” said one reviewer. “Trust me, it’ll save your marriage.”

In fact, many people have called it a “marriage saver”!

These days, we have a travel-size edition you can take on planes or to dinner which has proven popular.

Now, we’re launching in the US and I have other products in the works.

I’m so proud of my loo fragrance. Who knows, one day it might even make me stinking rich!

No.2 is available in 100ml ($29.00) and in a mini travel size ($15.00). To shop, click here.

No.2 is a boujee loo fragrance that is Australian made and all natural, that rids the loo of unwanted smells & keeps your reputation intact.

Coming to the rescue in the workplace, on first dates, hosting guests, entertaining at home, maintaining happy marriages or travelling on long-haul flights, No.2 is an essential-oil based formula of drops, pipetted directly into the loo after flushing.

Within 30 seconds, notes of mandarin, geranium & bergamot nullify unwanted smells and replace them with a beautiful citrus scent.

Sitting pretty in a sleekly-designed glass bottle, No.2 looks chicer than synthetic aerosol options.

How to banish toilet odour?

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• He couldn’t get the soundtrack song, Heart Asks Pleasure First, out of his head, so he bought a copy of the sheet music and started practising again.

• In 2019, he started playing piano all over Tasmania, including Kingston Bridge, Hydro Tasmania and the Huon River.
• Here, Kelvin Smith, 45, from Margate, Tas, shares his story

I closed my eyes and hummed the song Heart Asks Pleasure First, mimicking playing the piano with my fingers. It was 2016, and I’d just finished watching Jane Campion’s film, The Piano, which featured the song in its soundtrack.

I want to be able to play that, I thought.

I’d started piano lessons at 10, but by 15, I’d lost interest. The film had sparked it again.

I bought myself a copy of the song’s sheet music and practised on our home piano at every free moment.

“It’s about time you used that thing,” my wife, Kath, said, smiling.

We’d bought it 15 years before, hoping it would make me play again, but it never had.

My progress was slow. For weeks, I clumsily banged away on the keys, hoping to somehow make music, with little success.

“Dad, do you have to?” my son Hyland, 16, moaned.

My two other children, Hannah, 18, and Theo, 10, weren’t fans either.

But after six months and hours of practice, I finally mastered the song.

Afterwards, I started learning other pieces and even picked up a paid gig at a local hotel.

Then, in early 2019, my friend Tony, a piano removalist, set up a grand piano outside a property he owned, across the road from Kingston Beach and invited me round to use it.

With the sea breeze on my face as I played, I thought about how wonderful it would be to perform on the beach.

I asked Tony about logistics.

“I could help you do it safely,” he said. It was all I needed to hear.

The home piano was spoiled, so I got a new one for free after telling the lady selling it that I wanted to play it in beautiful locations across Tasmania.

Then, in December 2019, I set up on Kingston Beach.

I started playing, and a crowd formed. I’d been worried about the acoustics, but the music carried over the water beautifully.

People kept telling me I’d made their day. One lady even tried to hand me $50, but I politely declined.

“This is my gift to the people of Tassie,” I told her.

After two hours, I finished up, but I enjoyed myself so much I started performing outdoors twice a month.

I set up a Facebook page called A Piano Of Tasmania, where I shared my journey.

I’d also ask people where they’d like to see me play and used it as a guide. Some locations were government property and required authorisation, so took longer to organise.

Then, in March 2020, a lady from Hydro Tasmania called me.

“We’d like you to play on the Gordon Dam wall,” she said.

There were 250 steps to where they wanted me to perform, so she told me they’d arrange a helicopter.

“That’s so cool,” I replied.

After two months of paperwork and a wait for the right weather, I finally stood on the top of the dam as a drone was manoeuvred into place to record.

I watched nervously as the helicopter flew towards us, swinging side to side with the weight of the 210kg piano, which hung 40m underneath.

Please don’t fall, I prayed. Fortunately, all was well. The experience was unreal.

On another occasion, I played on the deck of a sailing ketch on the Huon River and, another time, on the balcony of the historic Hadley’s Hotel in Hobart. Then, in September 2022, the CEO of a construction company called me.

“We have a big crane that we’d like to hang you from,” he said. They’d acquired a working-at-heights licence so I could play my piano 30m above the ground on the Hobart waterfront at sunrise on the day of the Hobart Airport Marathon.

I played for five hours from dawn in front of hundreds of people.

As the sun peaked over the distant hills, it took my breath away.

It has been an adventure with over 70 locations in the last four years. And I’m sure there are more to come.

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Here are the main events of the next six months, the dates to watch, and everything love, luck and money in your star sign…

September 2: Pluto moves into Capricorn

This is the last chance to clear out work issues and to detox wherever possible.

September 18: Full Moon eclipse in Pisces

Time for some radical forgiveness – it will change your life! 

October 2: New Moon eclipse in Libra

A new start for lovers (and ex lovers) all over the world

November 2: Jupiter aligns with Chiron

Be one of those people who decides to heal an emotional upset

November 19: Pluto into Aquarius

A new cycle is starting for the world – expect tech breakthroughs and charitable change.

Mercury Retrograde – Think before you speak

Mercury is the planet which influences communication, so when it is in retrograde during the second half of the year, take care with the details of whatever you are focused on. Confusion can come up and misunderstandings, too.

It can all end up feeling rather stressful – life is wild enough without people taking things the wrong way, or feeling like you’re just being misinterpreted, agreed? However, there is a plus side to Mercury retrograde; see it as a chance for a ‘do over’ and you’ll get the best out of it. Think of it as a chance to rethink, revise, revisit, revamp and reconsider anything and everything – Mercury retrograde really does offer up second chances!

When is Mercury in retrograde July – December 2024?

Mercury retrograde begins in Virgo on August 5, 2024 and ends on August 29, 2024.

Mercury retrograde begins in Sagittarius on November 26, 2024 and ends on December 16, 2024.

Aries

March 21 – April 20

YOUR LOVE LIFE IS CHANGING (AGAIN!)

LOVE & FAMILY Expect big things in the coming six months – there’s a New Moon eclipse in your Love Zone on October 3 which can only mean one thing – expect the unexpected when it comes to love and romance between now and 2025!

WORK & MONEY You still have the planet for sudden surprises Uranus in your Money Zone so the truth is that there is still going to be a little chaos about anything to do with cash for you. Just set something aside for a rainy day and all should be okay.

LUCK You have a great blessing now – lucky and optimistic Jupiter in your Mind Zone. Look on the bright side and your life could start to fall into place!

Power dates

July 6 Channel your energy into ambitious projects.

July 16 Expect unexpected shifts or sudden opportunities, especially regarding finances.

October 4 You’re extra passionate and charming.

Taurus

April 21 – May 21

CAREFUL WITH CASH

LOVE & FAMILY If you’re in doubt about how loveable you are, use this six-month period to really big yourself up in terms of doing whatever it takes to bolster your self-esteem. The more you value yourself, the more others will value you too.

WORK & MONEY You have the power to really boost your bank account during this time. What you need to be careful of is expanding too fast or having too much blind faith in everything working out. Come with a plan!

YOUR LUCK On the one hand, you could be about to move into the most financially lucky time you’ve had for between six to 12 years. On the other, stay smart when it comes to cash. Financial lessons don’t need to be painful!

Power dates

July 15 Unexpected changes or revelations lead to personal breakthroughs

August 16 & 19 Challenges or obstacles may arise – be patient!

October 2 Focus on restarts in partnerships of all kinds

Gemini

May 22 – June 21

THIS COULD BE YOUR LUCKY SIX MONTHS

LOVE & FAMILY The end of the year sees the planet of communications, Mercury, making a visit to your Love Zone, so December and into the New Year is ideal for having whichever conversations you need to with the people who matter most.

WORK & MONEY Careful! With demanding  – and let’s be frank – sometimes downright depressing Saturn in your Career Zone right now, you could be so consumed with thoughts about how well you’re doing, or not doing professionally, that you’ve barely got time for what matters most – your personal life!

YOUR LUCK Since April, you’ve had the lucky planet Jupiter in your sign. Have you felt it at all? If not, then use this information now and decide that the Universe is henceforth on your side. What do you want to pull off with Lady Luck’s assistance?

Power dates

July 15 A day of insight and creative breakthroughs, ideal for unlocking hidden potential.

September 18 A critical moment for making significant decisions related to your career.

November 3 An opportune time for discussions leading to beneficial agreements, particularly around finances and shared commitments.

Cancer

June 22 – July 23

THE PRESSURE IS OFF

LOVE & FAMILY Right now you will experience more happiness and fulfilment if you find a good balance between your home life and your ambitions. You are normally family-focused but remember, worldly success can make you smile widely too.

WORK & MONEY You could feel as though the brakes are on financially around the end of the year when push-forward Mars does a reverse cycle in one of your Money Zones. Do chase up old unpaid debts. Don’t stall money-wise.

YOUR LUCK Your fortune is in your ability to go within at the moment. That might sound vague, but the truth is that the more you look at yourself, work through fears and connect with your Higher Self via meditation, the luckier you will feel. Give it a go.

Power dates

July 20 This day brings a focus on personal reinvention and the initiation of new personal projects or identity transformations, as significant energy highlights your first house of self.

September 18 Expect revelations or culminations in areas related to education, travel, or your beliefs

October 2 A pivotal time for partnerships for this horoscope, marking a new beginning or significant development in business or personal relationships, emphasising balance and harmony in connections.

Leo

July 24 – August 23

WISHES CAN COME TRUE NOW – SO MAKE THEM!

LOVE & FAMILY You’re on the cusp of possibly the most intense love cycle you’re ever going to experience this lifetime. You may have already had a taste of it. Make sure you are not being manipulative or involved with anyone trying to manipulate you!

WORK & MONEY Work might currently feel like an endless roller-coaster but money still needs to be earned, at least for most Leos out there. If that’s the case, put your head down and be as reliable as you can be.

YOUR LUCK You have the lucky planet Jupiter in your 11th house which is the part of your chart that sees dreams come true. It’s also your social circles. If you need help with anything now, start by asking your friends.

Power dates

July 22 Creative energies and personal expression are heightened, opportunity for showcasing your talents.

September 18 Focus on financial strategies or investments, and reassessment of resources, debts, or shared assets.

October 2 Focus on health and daily routines, implement positive lifestyle changes or new work habits.

Virgo

August 24 – September 23

THE LESSONS PEOPLE ARE TEACHING YOU …

LOVE & FAMILY With serious and sombre Saturn in your Love Zone and an eclipse there too, you’re going to be getting lots of lessons, welcome and otherwise, from the people in your life. Avoid shrugging them off. These are life lessons needed to learn to go to the next level!

WORK & MONEY You really do have amazing work stars at the moment, so try not to let the Saturn energies bombarding you get you down. Think big and aim high professionally, and you could reach some once-a-decade heady heights.

YOUR LUCK You’re particularly ‘in luck’ when it comes to your career and ambitions now. If you want to expand yourself professionally, you definitely have Lady Luck on your side, in the form of lucky Jupiter in your Career Zone.

Power dates

July 15 Healing is around private matters coming to light for resolution.

September 18 Endings could pave the way for beginnings in personal and professional partnerships.

October 2 Creativity, romance, and self-expression flourish.

Libra

September 24 – October 23

YOUR CHANCE TO BEGIN AGAIN

LOVE & FAMILY The second half of 2024 brings the last of the major disruptions in your home life – at least to the levels seen over the past few years. Don’t be tempted to go it alone now if someone is offering to stand by you.

WORK & MONEY The ups and downs continue thanks to the long-term presence of chaotic Uranus in your chart. Your best bet is to work for yourself – even an online side hustle would be perfect, so that you get the best of the energies. Explore your entrepreneurial side!

YOUR LUCK Luck will be on your side when you travel, especially long haul, or take a course of study. This is a time for you to widen your world view – doing so will help you to see how lucky you are and that will attract more good things to you!

Power dates

July 12 A vibrant period for self-expression and romance, encouraging Libra Rising to shine in love and creative endeavors.

August 5 A time for meticulous attention to relationships and projects, enhancing practical support and detailed expressions of affection.

October 8 Harmonious energies blend passion with action, ideal for pursuing desires in relationships, and artistic pursuits with balance and grace.

Scorpio

October 24 – November 22

AND BREATHE OUT…

LOVE & FAMILY Use the last six months of the year to clear out any negativity or toxicity in your family unit, including with your partner or ex. The more you do this now, the easier the next decade or two is going to be!

WORK & MONEY You have the planet of good luck and good times, Jupiter, in your Money Zone in the second half of this year. That sounds like a blessing, and it might be, but also remember that Jupiter often spends like there is no tomorrow – and there will be a tomorrow!

YOUR LUCK You really do have financial luck on your side during this six-month period. In particular, any joint ventures you enter into are blessed by the Goddess Fortuna. That doesn’t mean you don’t need to do your due diligence. Far from it. But the financial stars are on your side.

Power dates

July 6 Energies align for a productive push toward long-term ambitions, making it a great day for focused progress on challenging projects.

July 16 A day and overall period marked by unexpected developments, offering the chance for quick, decisive action that could lead to innovative breakthroughs.

October 4 A harmonious time for strengthening connections and pursuing passions with both intensity and balance, ideal for deepening relationships or artistic expression.

Sagittarius

November 23 – December 22

WISHES CAN COME TRUE

LOVE & FAMILY Even though you’re in an overall quite lucky cycle, you do have some pretty tough home and family stars to deal with. Your personal life has lots of lessons to teach you, but you also have happy Jupiter giving your love life a big boost!

WORK & MONEY You’re emerging from one of the most intense financial astrology cycles possible. It’s been going for around 15 years but it’s ending now. September and October are good for forging ahead with whatever your financial goals are.

YOUR LUCK Your horoscope really has two sides to it. The lucky side is all your most important one to one relationships, including personal and professional. Now is the time to focus on the people who make you happy and the people that you make smile.

Power dates

August 15 A time ripe for expanding knowledge and exploring new horizons, encouraging broad thinking and optimism.

October 12 An excellent day for connecting with others, where shared visions and collaborative efforts can lead to meaningful progress.

December 20 A period that highlights personal growth and understanding, perfect for reflecting on your journey and planning future adventures.

Capricorn

December 23 – January 20

YOU WON’T RECOGNISE YOURSELF SOON

LOVE & FAMILY If you make healing your aim now, at home and in your personal life, you will be taking best advantage of the current energies. Home is definitely where your heart is right now, so don’t avoid it because you’re so tied up with achieving! Family first, even if you have to kiss and make up first.

WORK & MONEY The karmic lunar nodes are offering you a choice – are you going to take the easy way out of life and just do what’s easy and familiar, or are you going to take life and run with it? While staying stuck feels easier, ultimately, it’s not. Choose your hand.

YOUR LUCK Your challenge now is to believe in your own good luck – if you can get your head around doing that, you can actually have a good six months! Try to find at least one thing a day to be grateful for and see how that transforms things.

Power dates

July 6 A great day for making significant headway on projects, where hard work and careful planning pay off.

August 20 A pivotal time for reflection and strategic adjustments, turning challenges into stepping stones for future success.

September 30 An optimal period for focused efforts and achieving goals, thanks to a strong drive and disciplined approach.

Aquarius

January 21 – February 19

LOVE & FAMILY With the planet of chaos and madness in your Home Zone for another year, it’s either going to be chaotic at home, or you wish it was! Now is the right time to do things differently when it comes to love and family. Dare to think outside the proverbial!

WORK & MONEY September looks good for you work-wise and when it comes to cash. There’s a Full Moon in Money Box suggesting you have taken Saturn’s medicine and learned your lessons of the past and are ready to turn things around.

YOUR LUCK You have a big blessing in your chart this year; the lucky planet Jupiter in your Fifth House. This is great because it means that no matter what else is going on, you could be able to find a way to have some fun in your personal life, either to do with kids (your own or someone else’s), a pregnancy, a romance or a creative project.

Power dates

July 16 Expect a surge of creativity and a push towards independence, making it a prime time for breakthroughs in personal projects.

July 19 A day that brings unexpected opportunities for growth, urging you to step out of your comfort zone and explore new possibilities.

October 8 Harmonious energies encourage you to balance your individuality with connections to others, fostering both personal and collective progress.

Pisces

February 20 – March 20

LOVE & FAMILY You have the lucky planet Jupiter in your Home and Family Zone so hopefully this will be a super happy time for you with anything and everything to do with your home and family. Regarding romance, Saturn is driving you so hard – you need to find the time for it!

WORK & MONEY Saturn back in Pisces for the first time in around 30 years really is dictating a lot of the energy in your chart at the moment. Work with Saturn by being a grown up, knowing your limits, working hard and being as real as you can be!

YOUR LUCK If you’re thinking about taking a little bit of a risk in your home or personal life, assess the risks very carefully. If you really think it’s worth a shot, know that you’re extra lucky for the rest of the year when it comes to home and family. 

Power dates

July 12 A period of heightened intuition and creativity, encouraging deep emotional connections and artistic expression.

September 18 A significant day for spiritual growth and understanding, offering clarity on personal beliefs and inspiring compassion in relationships.

November 19 An excellent time for reflection and inner growth, where dreams feel closer to reality, and personal boundaries expand to embrace new possibilities.

Our astrologer Yasmin Boland says, “Remember to read your Rising Sign, if you know it, for a more accurate prediction.”

If you don’t know it, find it out for free at moonmessages.com/freechart

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I picked up the beautiful hand-painted vase in my hands and smiled.

Better keep this safe, I thought.

It was 2021, and my husband Trevor, 67 and I had bought the ornament which had our names painted on the front of it during a trip to China. But when Trevor’s dear mum, May, 94, passed away four years earlier, it became her urn.

We were planning to move from the Gold Coast to Cairns and knowing how rough removalists could be, I packed the urn inside its decorative box, labelled it with fragile stickers and a note.

Mum’s urn – ashes, it read.

I put it inside the microwave for further protection, then boxed it all up.

Everything went into storage while we travelled.

We finally settled in a rental home in Cairns in August 2023, we’d not unpacked our things from storage.

Then, four months later, floods tore through town, turning our community upside down.

We threw ourselves into the clean-up process and visited our storage unit to see what was salvageable and what we could donate to people who’d lost everything.

At the local community centre, I dropped off boxes of practical things, including a couple marked ‘kitchen’.

A few of weeks later, I was strolling along The Esplanade listening to the local radio when a report caught my attention.

“In today’s odd news,” began the announcer, “a local’s newly donated microwave came with a surprise – a box marked ‘Mum’s ashes’!”

Who on earth would do something like that? I thought, grinning.

Then it hit me.

Oh no! May! I gasped.

Running home with my heart pounding, I wondered how I’d tell Trevor I’d accidentally donated his mum!

“You did what?” he said as I spilled the beans.

“I tucked her into the microwave for safekeeping,” I explained, “And now she’s ended up at the community centre!”

I quickly called ABC to confess what I’d done, and next thing, Trevor and I were live on air!

We were so nervous; we couldn’t stop laughing.

“What are the odds I’d be listening at that exact moment!” I exclaimed.

Afterwards, we rushed to the Holloways Community Hub and the volunteers were beside themselves when we rocked up to claim the ashes.

Rennae Brant-Goodwin, the volunteer crew leader, told us our donated goods had been passed on to flood-affected families needing essentials.

In the rush to help, the sealed box with the microwave had been handed over without a check. The new owners had contacted them after they’d made the awkward discovery.

“We tried everything to return the urn to its owners,” she said. “We even posted about it on Facebook but no one came to collect it.”

Thankfully, the post was widely shared, leading to it being featured in the local paper and on the radio.

“We can’t thank you enough,” I told them.

When I phoned our kids – Blake, 36, Nathan, 34, and Katie, 29 – to tell them what had happened to their nan, they laughed.

“Nan loved cooking, and she loved her microwave,” Blake joked. “She was probably quite comfy there.”

I still can’t quite believe the ashes made their way back to us.

But now that May is home, I won’t let her out of sight again!

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This positive initiative is dedicated to supporting our incredible carers by campaigning for superannuation payments for carers.

Every week in Australia, 2.65 million people dedicate an average of 36 hours – and sometimes up to 104 hours – caring for a friend, relative or neighbour in need. Seven out of 10 unpaid carers are women*, who make significant emotional, career and financial sacrifices to care for their loved ones.

Keep reading for why the ‘Cost of Caring’ campaign matters and how you can get involved.

What is the ‘Cost of Caring’ about?

It’s time to shine a light on the heroes who often go unnoticed – our unpaid family carers. These are the amazing individuals who support the most vulnerable among us, from the elderly and disabled to those facing mental health challenges. They step in and provide essential care and support that many in our communities rely on.

But here’s the kicker: while they’re busy taking care of everyone else, these carers often face significant challenges themselves, as they sacrifice their income, future income potential and superannuation to look after someone they love.

The ‘Cost of Caring’ campaign is about addressing this issue and with your support we will be asking the Government to pay superannuation to all recognised unpaid carers** in Australia.

Annabel Reid, Carers Australia CEO, says that a campaign of this size and magnitude will be a huge boost to the long-standing call for superannuation to be paid on the Carers Payment.

“If these changes were implemented by the current Government, we would begin to see real-life benefits for a community in Australia providing at least $80 billion of care services for free to those who need it most,” Annabel says.

“Economically, people who provide unpaid care are likely to earn less than those who do not. It is time we did more for the cohort of carers who have had to give up employment opportunities to provide care and reduce their superannuation deficit.

“The critical and significant work that unpaid carers provide across the country is vital to supporting Australia’s strained health system, aged care system, disability support and mental health support and is often undertaken at great cost to a carer’s own general and financial wellbeing,” she adds.

Why should the ‘Cost of Caring’ matter to you?

Carers offer compassion and assistance, and their work is vital to the wellbeing of our communities. However, despite their crucial role, many carers struggle financially.

When a carer is looking after someone they love, their financial vulnerability increases as they sacrifice their own income, future income potential and superannuation.

As Jane Huxley, CEO of Are Media, beautifully puts it: “Our carers are the backbone of our community, offering unconditional support and love. It’s time we returned the favour and ensured they have the support they need to continue their incredible work.”

How you can help

One of the most impactful ways you can help right now is by signing the petition to guarantee superannuation for carers.

Your signature can help bring about the changes needed and together we can make a real difference in the lives of those who give so much to our communities.

*Australian Bureau of Statistics, 2018

**The definition for carer (under the Australian Government Carer Recognition Act 2010) is someone who gives care and support to a relative or friend who: has a disability; has a medical condition (terminal or chronic illness); has a mental illness; or is frail because they are old (known as ‘frail and aged’)

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The 36-year-old recently appeared back in court in Italy, where she was convicted for slander. The court found that she had wrongly accused bar owner Patrick Lumumba of murdering her roommate Meredith Kercher shortly after the shocking 2007 crime.

AMANDA KNOX FREE AT LAST?

The fact that Amanda doesn’t have to face any more time behind bars must come as a huge relief to the US author and activist. She’s worked hard to turn her life around in recent years.

In pictures from last week, the mum-of-two was seen strolling through the streets of Rome with her husband, Christopher Robinson. They looked like any other tourists as they explored with their young children, Eureka, 2, and nine-month-old Echo.

While she looks at home with motherhood, Amanda has admitted on social media that she has struggled to reclaim her identity since her exoneration.

“It’s not easy. And I often feel like I’m trying to invent good choices out of bad whole cloth,” she said.

“I know that I cannot 100 per cent protect my daughter from the kind of treatment I’ve suffered. But I’m doing the best I can.”

Amanda has also drawn on her daunting experience of being behind bars to work on the podcast Labyrinth, which she hosts with her husband.

A NEW ADVENTURE

The podcast series, which began in October 2020, sees Amanda and Christopher explore true crime stories through interviews, philosophy and debate.

Talking about the podcast with Vulture, Amanda says she knows what it’s like to be at the centre of an entertaining story.

“Being able to speak to that when looking at other cases seemed like a really great opportunity,” she explained.

It would be completely understandable if Amanda resented Italy. The country wrongly convicted her of murdering her friend while on student exchange back in 2007. However, Amanda has no hard feelings towards the country.

“I’ve got all my life to live, I’ve got all my love to give… Still love you, Italia,” she shared on Instagram while visiting the country for her court case.

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“It’s my guilty pleasure,” she tells Woman’s Day. “The costumes and scenery are a real feast for the eyes. Lady Danbury is my favourite, hands down. She always slays.”

Over the years, her obsession has fuelled a dressmaking hobby. And Amber’s travelled all over the world to events in which to wear her creations.

She recently attended a costume ball at Chateau de Vaux-le-Vicomte in France, where guests dress up in period costumes and live the life of 17th-century nobles.

AMBER LYSTER AS THE ‘PRINCESS OF PERTH’

Amber and her partner Chris, 38, who proposed at the 2023 event, call themselves the Princess of Perth and the Duke of Downunder on their social media accounts.

“This year, my dress took about 56 hours to make. Chris’ was more difficult as there’s a lot of embroidery, so that was more like 180 hours work,” says the commercial coordinator.

Amber sources their wigs from a shop in Sweden, with each one costing around $500. But she managed to do Chris’ hat on the cheap, using something she found in Kmart!

“It’s an expensive hobby, but we plan for ages. And we both love it,” she says.

After returning from France in June, Amber was thrilled to discover an event much closer to home. Immersive Bridgerton Balls, originally held in US cities such as New York, LA and San Francisco, recently launched in Melbourne.

Naturally, Amber was quick to book tickets. “I was excited that my dress would get another outing,” she says. “Plus, I have transporting it down to an art with a custom box in carry-on dimensions!”

Then on June 9th, Amber was again the Bridgerton belle of the ball, alongside Chris and her friend Ali, 34.

AN IMMERSIVE PARTY EXPERIENCE

The intimate fan event is billed as an immersive party experience. Therefore, it includes a cast of actors and dancers who involve the audience in the performance. The event is then concluded with the Queen selecting her “diamond” – the pick of the night.

“There were some magical locations for photos. And I loved the big throne, which fit my big dress!” Amber shares.

“The atmosphere was great. There was a large group in Regency style. Everyone made a huge effort. And they did an amazing job decorating. You forgot you were in a warehouse.”

Now it’s onto the next event, which Amber is organising herself – a Renaissance-themed wedding. “It won’t happen until 2026 because I have a lot of costumes to make for that,” she says.

For more information, visit bridgertonexperience.com.

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Three key signs your cat or dog is feeling the cold

According to an article published by The Conversation, postdoctoral researcher, Melissa Starling shares this rule of thumb:

“If I can feel [the pet’s] ears or feet are a bit chilly to touch, that suggests their core temperature might be a bit low.”

Aside from cold ears or paws, shivering is the most obvious sign that your beloved fur baby is feeling the chill.

Keep an eye on your pet’s posture, too. Are they sleeping tucked into a little ball? Or are they walking around with their spine hunched over? These are common signs that they might need some extra snuggles to warm up.

It’s also important to monitor your pet’s behavioural changes once temperatures plummet. Some pets will become more lethargic and begin avoiding cold floors. Others will sleep all day or retreat to a warm spot in the house, like a patch of sunlight. Alternatively, some pets will let their discomfort be known with excessive barking, meowing and even whining.

In particular, smaller or senior pets are more likely to feel it when the temperature drops lower than seven degrees, due to their struggle to retain body heat.

But remember, However, that doesn’t always apply to breeds like Pomeranians, Alaskan Malamutes or Persians, who have thick fur and an undercoat to keep warm. Dog or cat breeds with shorter coats are the ones who really need to make up for their lack of fluff. Think Italian Greyhounds or Chihuahuas – they’re not just shaking for fun! Keep an eye out for how they’re doing. If you’re concerned check out these pet first aid tips and consult your vet.

How to keep your pets warm

If you notice any of the above signs, it’s time to bring your four-legged friend inside. If you don’t want to sit outside in the cold, then your pet certainly doesn’t either!

Now, if you’re trying to save on heating or don’t have an air conditioning unit in your home, the best way to keep your furry friends warm is to help them rug up.

Thankfully, leading pet supplier Petstock has all your snuggly needs sorted with its new winter collection.

With a lineup of cosy clothing and accessories, Petstock caters to pooches and cats alike. From warm fleece jumpers to waterproof rain jackets and even insulated puffer vests, there’s something for every pet – big or small.

Our five top picks from Petstock’s winter range

DGG Chunkly Fluffy Knit, $34.97

Nobody – not even our pets – can resist a cable knit. This chunky knit has been a Petstock favourite for five years and comes in five stunning colours, including taupe, musk, teal, sage and caramel.

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DGG Puffer Jacket Racer, $44.97

Who says puffers are only reserved for humans? Match in style on an outing to your local café by kitting your dog out in one of these stylish jackets. Lined with polar fleece on the inside, it’ll keep them warm and toasty even while outside.

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FuzzYard Flipside Dog Raincoat, $64.97

Nobody likes getting caught out in the rain, let alone your four-legged friend. This water-resistant raincoat features a reversible design so they can rock a block colour one day, and a fun geometric pattern the next.

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Buddy & Belle Bolster Bed, $119

To best prepare your four-legged friend for winter, you’ll need to invest in some cosy bedding. Available in small/medium or large/extra-large, this pet bed was designed for chilly nights. Featuring a reversible and removable cushion, it’s easy to chuck in the wash if your pet comes in covered in mud after a wet day.

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Lexi & Me Cat Cave, $49.97

All cats love a good hidey hole when it’s cold, and there’s nothing they love more than sequestering themselves somewhere protected and warm. And while most cats prefer to sleep anywhere but an actual bed, this cat cave is sure to pleasantly surprise both you and kitty.

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PetStock’s winter range is available both in-store and online here. Get same-day delivery if you place an order by 4pm or select Click & Collect for fast and easy pick-up.

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Heather Mack was destined for a life of privilege.

Her dad, James Mack, was a famous jazz composer and her mum, Sheila von Wiese-Mack, was a socialite and publisher, who was part of an elite social circle.

The family lived in an opulent home and Heather was set to inherit millions of dollars, thanks to a generous family trust fund.

But, in 2006, when Heather was just 10 years old, her dad died from a pulmonary embolism at age 76, while the family was on holiday in Greece.

Her entire world imploded and with her grief, she set off down a path of destruction – drinking, taking drugs and going to wild parties.

It strained her relationship with her mum, and they fought often, with police being called to their home after disturbances more than 80 times.

Match made in hell

One wild night out, when Heather Mack was 17, she met Tommy Schaefer, 20.

He was a college dropout and aspiring rap artist – and Heather was attracted to his bad-boy persona.

They soon started dating.

Sheila didn’t like Tommy, which drove an even bigger wedge between her and her teenage daughter.

When Heather fell pregnant aged 18, Sheila was desperate to show her she was going down the wrong path.

As a last-ditch attempt to salvage things, she booked them a luxury holiday to Bali.

They flew business class and checked in to the five-star St Regis Hotel.

It was supposed to be a few weeks in paradise where Heather could reconsider her life choices, but it turned out she had other plans…

Holiday horror

Using her mother’s credit card, Heather booked Tommy an $18,000 business class flight to Bali and a room in their hotel.

When Sheila found out he was there – and she was paying for it – she was furious, exploding at her daughter in the hotel lobby.

Next day, a taxi driver alerted security to a heavy suitcase that had been abandoned in his boot.

At first, he had thought that guests were coming back to collect it but then he’d noticed it was stained with blood.

Inside the case was the mutilated body of Sheila.

The 62-year-old had been bludgeoned repeatedly and had suffocated on her own blood.

CCTV footage from the hotel revealed Heather and her boyfriend had rolled the suitcase to the front, and asked a taxi driver to put it in the boot of his car while they returned to their room to collect something.

The couple hadn’t returned so the driver alerted hotel security who called police. Officers then made the gruesome discovery and launched a murder investigation.

Plot to kill

Footage from earlier that day showed Tommy Schaefer approaching Sheila’s room with something – which later turned out to be the metal handle of a decorative fruit bowl – hidden under his shirt.

Next day, the pair were found hiding out at a nearby budget hotel.

At first, they denied the murder, saying Sheila had been killed by a local gang.

But text messages quickly revealed they’d planned to murder Sheila.

Schaefer had texted his cousin Robert Bibbs telling him Heather Mack had offered $74,000 to help kill her mother.

Tommy and Robert then discussed possible ways to do it, including suffocation and drowning.

Money on their minds

The motive appeared to be Heather’s $2.4million future inheritance.

One message from Schaefer to Heather, sent as she boarded her flight to Bali read: I can’t wait to be rich… I seriously can’t wait. I’m so geeked. I’m like thinking of lavish lifestyles.

Texts showed the pair compared themselves to Bonnie and Clyde.

Tommy Schaefer eventually admitted beating Sheila to death with the fruit bowl handle but said he’d acted in self-defence.

He claimed they had argued after she had found out about Heather’s pregnancy and she’d threatened to kill the baby, repeatedly making racial slurs towards him.

Heather admitted her part in the crime, saying she’d helped Schaefer to stuff her mum’s body into a suitcase before they fled.

Many of their claims didn’t stand up in court though. Texts proved the murder was premeditated. And emails from Sheila to her friends showed she knew about the pregnancy before the holiday.

How long was Heather Mack sentenced to?

In April 2015, Heather Mack, 19, was convicted of being an accessory to murder and given a 10-year prison sentence.

Tommy Schaefer, 21, was convicted of premeditated murder and given 18 years.

The couple escaped the harshest Balinese punishment of death by firing squad, because the judge didn’t want their baby to be raised without parents.

During the trial, Heather gave birth to a baby girl, Stella, and had no choice but to raise her daughter in her cell.

“I don’t regret killing my mother”

Later, Robert Ryan Bibbs, 26, was sentenced to nine years in prison on one count of conspiracy to commit foreign murder of a US citizen.

In 2017, a video of Heather finally confessing to the crime was uploaded to YouTube. In it, she says, “I don’t regret killing my mother.”

She added that she did regret “trapping an innocent person into this”, referring to Schaefer.

In another twist, just days later, Heather Mack claimed the confession was false, and she’d been coerced into it a year earlier by Schaefer.

She told prison officials she didn’t know how the video ended up online. 

Where is Heather Mack now?

On October 29, 2021, Heather Mack, 26, was released after seven years, due to good behaviour.

She was deported and the moment she touched down in Chicago a few days later, she was arrested again and charged with conspiracy to kill in a foreign country and conspiracy to commit foreign murder of a US national.

Heather Mack initially pleaded not guilty, but later accepted a plea deal, admitting the charges. She faces up to 28 years in jail.

Her daughter is now in the custody of Heather’s cousin.

According to reports, Schaefer, who is still in prison, is a born-again Christian who has baptised other prisoners.

He could face the same charges when he is eventually released and returned to US soil.

“I used to sit at home watching crime shows on TV with my mum and remember asking myself, ‘How is it possible to kill someone? How do they do it?’ And now, here I am, in jail for murder in Bali. It seems surreal,” he says.

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“It shocked a few people when he stepped up to chair the meeting at Today. But Karl loves Jasmine and his daughters so much that he would hate to see them grow up in a world where toxic work environments are still a part of everyday workplaces, especially for young women,” reveals a TV source of Karl’s decision, after the shock exit of Nine’s news and current affairs director Darren Wick.

“He has so much respect for Sarah [Abo] and his sister-in-law Sylvia [Jeffreys] and Brooke Boney, who he’s become really close buddies with.

STANDING UP FOR WOMEN

“His Nine family are just as important to him as his actual blood family. So he’s decided if he doesn’t stand up [for them] then who will? There were a few critics at Nine who wondered what his motivation was.

“But at the end of the day he’s made no secret of where he stands. He’d have seen it as an opportunity to show other male colleagues they really do have to do better.

“The old larrikin in Karl is still there, but these days, he knows he’s in a position of power. And he has to do what he can to make Nine and other places safe to work in for females.”

It’s just one of many “lightbulb” moments that the beloved 49-year-old TV star has been having of late.

“Karl has had a bit of a wake-up call re his health, knowing he’s not getting any younger and wants to approach  50 having made some huge lifestyle changes – he’s become a lot more introspective about what’s really important in life,” adds the insider.

“After losing his good mate Warnie [Shane Warne] a few years ago Karl is doing everything to try and shed a few kilos and take better care of himself. He loves his family and wants to be around for a long time – Jasmine is the epicentre of his world. And he knows he has to lift his game if he’s to survive the next 50 years!”

BUILDING A FOREVER HOME

As well as his health overhaul, Karl is in the middle of building wife Jasmine her dream home with the help of Pete Kennon from Studio Kennon.

“Jasmine is beside herself excited she’s finally getting her dream home. She’s always wanted the huge harbour view mansion Karl had with ex-wife Cass. And now plans are afoot and in the pipeline for it to come true since winning their battle with the local council, who’ve approved their designs.

“It’s set to be $4 million with the cost of building on the rise, but Karl wants Jasmine to get the home of her dreams!”

WILLOW’S POLO PLAYER BOYFRIEND

Karl can’t wait to spend time with his daughter Willow, 19 – who’s studying fashion in London – while he’s in Paris. He wants to meet her new polo-playing boyfriend!

“Willow has fallen for a wealthy Argentinian polo player who works in business banking and finance – his name is Genaro Abdala and if she’s smitten, he’s head over heels!” shares a source.

“They reportedly met in Aspen when Willow and her brothers Jackson and River holidayed with their father and Jasmine and Harper last Christmas. His family have a place in Spain, and he’s been treating her to lavish trips to Ibiza – she’s living the high life.”

KARL STEFANOVIC 2.0

Karl was once famously drunk on air after the Logies, but could he be putting away his beer glass for good? Plans were afoot for the notorious party-loving Queenslander to hold a 50th birthday party to end all parties while in Paris for the Olympic Games.

But a pesky scheduling issue has meant that Karl might end up flying home earlier than expected and be back in Australia for his birthday.

“He’s secretly relieved that the party might be cancelled. After blowing $50,000 on Jasmine’s 40th earlier this year, he’s thinking that a low-key lunch somewhere in Noosa might be easier on the bank balance, especially with his new house to pay for!”

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Waking up, I winced in pain. It felt like a vice was tightening around my skull.

It was 2012, and I was supposed to be enjoying a day off from my retail job, but, as I slid out of bed, I was horrified to find I could barely move my legs.

What’s going on? I fretted to myself.

My husband and 10-year-old daughter weren’t home, and my son lived with his father, so I called my GP.

“Hello? Is anyone there?” the receptionist asked.

My splitting head wasn’t giving me the words to say.

“Something… wrong,” I finally uttered.

She urged me to go to hospital so I texted my husband to take me.

On my way, he immediately responded.

Shortly after, a neurologist assessed me.

“I’d say it’s a migraine,” he said unsympathetically.

I was given ibuprofen and sent home in a wheelchair with the expectation it would pass. It didn’t.

After weeks of compromised movement and speech, I was sent for occupational therapy but even that didn’t work.

I was devastated. I tried to carry on with life but I’d often end up falling and suffering concussions.

Sadly, my marriage ended under the pressure and my daughter and I had to move in with my parents, Jim and Faye.

Dad was already caring for Mum, who had many health issues including liver cirrhosis from excessive drinking when she was younger.

Now, he also had to help me around the house.

When my sister, Robin, visited me in 2013, she was shocked by my condition.

“I feel like I’m waiting to die,” I told her in tears.

“Jana, this has gone on long enough!” she stated.

With her persistence for answers, I was referred to the leading neurologist at a medical university.

Looking at my MRI results, he frowned. Then he measured the circumference of my head.

“You’re within days of dying,” he gasped.

I had hydrocephalus which meant swollen ventricles were pressing my brain against my skull.

He arranged emergency surgery for the following day, which allowed for the spinal fluid to flow, taking pressure off my brain.

After the procedure, I could finally walk, talk and think clearly again!

I’ve got my life back, I thought, overjoyed.

But three months later, I struggled to walk again and this time, there was nothing doctors could do.

An occupational therapist helped me get back on my feet with a cane, but I’d never return to my old self.

Life became very dark until, in 2016, I reconnected with my old boyfriend, Kenny, on Facebook.

Kenny and I had broken up when I was 14, but I’d never forgotten him.

He eventually revealed he was a single father with a son, Aiden, five, and an adult daughter who lived in another state.

Thankfully, he wasn’t put off by my condition, and before long, Kenny and I rekindled our relationship.

He’d come around to watch movies and eat pizza with me and my daughter, and his bright outlook started rubbing off on me.

We married in 2018 and flew over to London for our honeymoon.

Arriving at Heathrow airport, Kenny headed off to the bathroom.

Where am I? I suddenly fretted, clutching my cane.

Not recognising my surroundings or the strangers rushing by, I became paralysed with fear.

Kenny returned and calmed me down, but I knew that something wasn’t right.

Early onset dementia

It was two years before a neuropsychologist could see me, then she delivered a devastating blow.

“You have dementia,” she said after conducting tests.

I was just 49 years old.

“That and the hydrocephalus were caused by foetal alcohol syndrome,” she continued.

With the concussions I’d suffered, it had created the perfect storm.

By then, Mum had passed away, but I was furious her choices had taken so much from me.

In time, a counsellor helped me understand that Mum had been battling her own demons and I forgave her, but it didn’t change the fact I was losing myself.

“If I could take this from you and give it to myself, I would,” Kenny told me.

In 2021, I began posting videos about my life with early onset dementia on TikTok in the hope of connecting with other early sufferers.

I shared how difficult it could be to tie my shoelaces or process a text message, and how I’d forget to take my medication or let my dog, Emma, out.

They got thousands of views. People wanted to hear about this.

Within two years, I gained over 89,000 followers and connected with many others who were suffering early onset dementia.

You’ve given me the courage to start sharing my journey, one wrote.

The prognosis for me is uncertain, but I’m rapidly declining. It terrifies me that one day I’ll forget my family entirely.

I can’t stop the degenerating effects of dementia, but I’m spreading the message that it’s okay not to be okay.

My dad had a saying that I now live by; “every day on this side of the grass is a good one”.

Follow Jana on TikTok and Instagram.

What are the symptoms of early onset dementia?

The signs of early onset dementia may not be immediately obvious. Signs and symptoms of dementia can include:

• Forgetting things or recent events
• Losing or misplacing items
• Confusion
• Getting lost when walking or driving
• Personality of behaviour changes
• Loss of ability to do everyday tasks

How long do people with early onset dementia live?

• The type of dementia a person has can affect how long they live with dementia, so the life expectancy varies.
• Someone diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, the most common type of dementia, can live for around eight to 10 years.
• Life expectancy is less if the person is diagnosed in their 80s or 90s.

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Clad in hot pants and bedazzled talk tops, his upbeat and inclusive approach to fitness saw him star in infomercials, publish cookbooks and make regular appearances on television.

His 1998 fitness video Sweatin to the Oldies was a record-breaking success. It grossed over $200 million in sales.

EXERCISE THE RIGHT TO PRIVACY

But in 2014, the flamboyant fitness guru mysteriously vanished overnight from the public eye, sending fans into a worried frenzy.

Speculation ran wild with claims he was being held captive by his housekeeper, that he’d had gender affirmation surgery, was terminally ill or had gained so much weight he was physically incapacitated.

This inspired the hit 2017 podcast Missing Richard Simmons made by one of his former fitness class attendees, which attempted to solve the puzzle.

Finally, Richard responded by issuing a statement on Facebook saying, “I’m not ‘missing’, just a little under the weather”.

Earlier this year when it was announced that American comedian Pauly Shore was set to play him in a new biopic, Richard swiftly responded saying that he hadn’t given permission for the production.

The now 75-year-old recently surprised fans. He announced that he’s working on an interactive Broadway show about his life and appears to be back in the public eye.

“I am so excited,” he wrote “I have so many ideas and I’m writing them all down… Broadway is in my blood!”

‘YOU GOTTA MOVE!’

Australian born fitness and diet guru Susan Powter was a mid-nineties self-help sensation telling fans, “You gotta eat! You gotta breathe! You gotta move!” in her infomercials.

With her bleached-blonde crew cut and stiletto heels, Powter raged against the scourge of diets and fat substitutes. She claimed they only set women up for failure.

“Stop the insanity,” she told them. In 1993 alone, Powter sold more than $50 million worth of simplified, common-sense wellness advice. “If you can’t pronounce it,” she told followers, “Don’t eat it.”

However, in 1995, three days before her third book was due to be released, Powter filed for personal bankruptcy. She blamed legal battles with her business partners.

“I am broke,” she said. “I just don’t have any money.”

While Powter largely disappeared from the mainstream media spotlight, she still remains active to her followers through online consultations and private sessions.

‘AEROBICS OZ STYLE’

Aerobics Oz Style helped Australia get up and moving every morning with exercise between 1982 to 2000. The beloved Channel Ten show served up upbeat music and funky leotards against the backdrop of iconic local landmarks.

Instructors included June Jones, Jodie Low, Wendi Carroll and others such as Kelly Martinovich.

After joining the show in 1998, Kelly become a standout personality. But when the show’s production ended, she faced personal challenges.

In August 2022, Martyn Williams stormed into the Perth gym he jointly owned with Kelly, carrying a sledgehammer. He angrily yelled at the high-profile fitness instructor.

Kelly had reportedly tried to end their business partnership. But on facing court, Martyn denied threatening anyone. Just weeks later, Kelly’s son Jaden was charged with murder after allegedly stabbing a 17-year-old in the heart during an apparent botched drug deal.

Jaden, 18, pleaded not guilty to murder. He claimed he was defending himself during an alleged carjacking. His next hearing is in August.

EXERCISE AND ‘FEEL THE BURN’

When actress Jane Fonda released her first exercise video sporting a striped leotard and burgundy stirrup leg warmers with her hair fluffed to heaven, she sparked a fitness revolution.

Released on VHS tape in 1982, Jane Fonda’s Workout was an unprecedented success. It launched a fitness series that sold over 17 million copies. “Feel the burn!” and “No pain, no gain” became her catchphrases.

Despite netting millions, the business wasn’t owned by Jane but the organisation she and her then husband Tom Hayden founded to further his political career.

“Tom hated it,” Jane later said of her incredibly successful second career. “Even though all the money went to the organisation. He thought it was all about vanity.”

The couple divorced in 1990 and since then Jane has attributed her dedication to fitness as a crucial part of her recovery from a lifelong eating disorder.

Now 86, Jane has released 22 workout videos.

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“It’s such a beautiful day,” I told him.

He barked in agreement before tugging on the lead, eager to meet new people that he could stop and have a cuddle with.

Though wolf-like in appearance, he was a teddy bear at heart.

My partner, David, and I had got him in March 2018, when he was 12 weeks old, and he settled into our home perfectly.

He was cheeky, and loved testing the limits of what he could do – like snuggling with us on the couch or the bed – but we loved him for it.

Now, he was 18 months old, with bundles of energy. Once we’d finished our walk, we headed back towards home.

We were around 200m away, when suddenly I felt a thud on my back and everything went black.

When I came around, I was in the hospital, covered in wires. David was by my bedside.

“What happened?” I croaked. I couldn’t remember a thing.

David explained a woman had been driving down the quiet road where Max and I were walking when her vehicle lost control, mounted the pavement and hit me, propelling me head-first into a rock wall, cracking my skull open and exposing my brain.

The wall was surrounded by trees and bushes, meaning my lifeless body was hidden from sight from anyone walking past.

The vehicle had eventually crashed onto its roof further down the road.

Fortunately, Max had escaped unharmed.

Realising I needed help, our clever boy ran home to raise the alarm.

He pawed at the door until David opened it.

“He was covered in your blood, and I knew something must have happened to you,” David told me.

When I didn’t answer my phone, he grabbed Max’s lead and let him lead the way.

Before reaching me, David came across the police at the scene where the driver had crashed.

“Please, help me. I can’t find my partner!” he shouted to them.

With the help of Max, they found me hidden behind a tree, unconscious and bleeding from my injuries.

The ambulance arrived and took me to the hospital, where I was put in an induced coma for 27 days.

I’d sustained a traumatic brain injury and needed to go through an 11-hour reconstructive surgery because every bone in my face was broken.

My neck, pelvis and wrist were all fractured, too, plus my liver was ruptured. I also had five of my bottom teeth knocked out.

“You wouldn’t have made it if it wasn’t for Max,” David told me, teary-eyed.

The paramedics said if I’d been left there 10 minutes more, I’d be dead. Max had saved my life.

Over the next few weeks, I was in ICU and then the neurology ward, slowly healing. I couldn’t see Max at that time as he wasn’t allowed inside the hospital.

“How is he?” I asked David.

“He’s worried,” David replied. “He keeps looking for you.”

My heart ached for him. When I was finally well enough to be moved to the brain injury rehabilitation unit, David brought Max to visit me in the outside grounds.

Seeing me, he sprinted over and jumped right into my arms.

“Mummy’s okay,” I told him through my tears. “All thanks to you.”

It was a precious moment. I never wanted to let him go.

I got home from my three-month stay in the hospital right before Christmas.

The recovery was long, but having Max by my side helped me to cope.

In time, the driver pleaded guilty to driving without due care and attention causing grievous bodily harm.

She was sentenced to two months jail, suspended for nine months.

Then, in September of 2021, I received wonderful news.

“I’m pregnant,” I told David.

We had been trying for a while, and I’d just come back from seeing the doctor for nausea.

Other than gestational diabetes and having to take medication to prevent blood clots, I had a healthy pregnancy.

On May 5, 2022, we welcomed our beautiful son, Isaac.

When I introduced him to Max for the first time, my heart was bursting with love.

“He’s here because of you,” I told Max.

For his bravery, Max was awarded the Animal Hero Award by the RSPCA in 2020 for saving my life.

We were all so proud of him.

Tragically, Max passed away at five and a half years old after a series of health issues, leaving us devastated.

Isaac’s now two, and we tell him stories about our hero dog, Max.

We’ll never forget what he did for our family.

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A common fear that stops us from acting on that dream and turning it into reality is the belief that we’ve left it too late, especially for those who’ve been in the same kind of role for many years. Not to mention worry that we could end up working more hours than ever before. Or of course, the business will fail due to our lack of experience and expert guidance. 

Still, more Aussies are taking the leap in 2024. We’re changing jobs at the highest rate in a decade, according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics. And those aged 25-54 are among the age groups leading the charge.

How Jayde started her business

Aussie mum Jayde Magill spent 20 years working for other people, but just six months after leaving her role to become a V.I.P. Home Cleaning Franchisee, she already has around 70 clients and employs three people – yet somehow, has more free time with her family than she ever dreamed of.

“I was looking for a way to earn more and have a better work-life balance,” Jayde says.

“I worked long hours, never had enough time to be involved with my kids, and had no energy left for the weekend to enjoy life.”

Now, thanks to the flexibility that her set-up as a small business franchisee offers, Jayde says she’s always around for school pick-up and drop-off and can even fit in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu classes three times a week with her husband David.

A similar experience was shared by former bus driver Rameshinder Jassal, from West Pennant Hills, NSW. Now a V.I.P. Lawns & Gardens franchisee, he made the leap into small business to have more flexibility and spend more time with his family.

“I can schedule my working hours according to my family commitments,” he said. “I have become more fit than I was before, I have more free time and my earnings have almost doubled.”

His longer-term goal is to expand his workforce and work fewer hours.

“There is great scope to expand your business if you’re happy to employ others,” he said. “Ultimately you can change this business into a passive income business.”

Choosing the right business structure is key

Those considering taking the leap into becoming a small business owner may understandably be concerned about the many requirements involved before they get started. Regardless of the type of field they’re looking to pursue, worries can include not having the experience and business acumen needed, for the heavy time cost and complexities of administration.

This can include tax management, permit requirements, revenue concerns – and cash flow including the need for any business loans. For Jayde, it was about knowing how much money she’d need upfront to get started so she could plan accordingly, especially in the early weeks and months – managing income with outgoings to meet the cost of living expenses.

What made all the difference to Jayde in not just giving peace of mind on that front but managing to achieve good work-life balance so early on – was the business structure.

It was a huge benefit not having to build a company from scratch, thanks to the set-up as a V.I.P. franchisee. Aside from the business name, brand and logo already being provided, the pricing, uniforms, technology and other equipment is also already organised for franchisees.

That meant Jayde could get cracking with her home cleaning small business from day one. Plus, V.I.P. offers ongoing training and help with accounting, managing bookings, liaising with clients and marketing. She says that level of support was key.

Duane Slabbert from Parkside, South Australia, has had a similar experience. He’s a V.I.P. Home Cleaning franchisee who’d been working as a data analyst in the life insurance industry. When the time came for him to make his own mid-career change, the set-up gave him the confidence to step away from full-time employment to become his own boss.

“The franchise model offers a proven business strategy that reduces the risk typically associated with starting a new business,” he said. “Being part of a recognised brand opens many doors and provides a level of trust with clients that would be hard to achieve on your own. It’s an ideal path for those looking to venture into entrepreneurship with a support system backing them.”

Jayde’s secrets to starting a small business

Starting a business always has its challenges. But here are Jayde’s four top tips to help set yourself up for success:

1. Be in business to solve a problem. Don’t worry about having an original idea or competition – just focus on solving a problem for your customers at the right price.
2. Draw on your experience. You’re never really starting from scratch when you make a mid-career change. All of your previous work and life experience will likely come in handy at some point.
3. Know your costs. Understand how much money you’ll need to spend upfront and ongoing, so you can calculate your cash flow. As a V.I.P. franchisee, you can access marketing support (including a tailored local area marketing plan), which Jayde says has been invaluable for efficiently finding and converting leads – giving her more time to focus on getting out and making money.
4. Be a good boss. Take the time to get to know your team and their needs, so they have fun at work and want to help grow your business. And share the spotlight by celebrating and thanking them for their efforts. Jayde does this quickly and easily by taking screenshots of client feedback and sending it to her team.

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The inmates can decorate their cells with pink bedding and towels, are able to pet animals to keep themselves calm, visit a stocked library and even go shopping for snacks and clothes.

Letby’s new cell at the privately run HMP Bronzefield near Ashford, Surrey, is even better, with an ensuite bathroom, phone and TV, reports The Sun.

She has also been able to dye her hair brown and, unlike other inmates, doesn’t have a full-time job.

“She is in a nice cell and on her own. [It’s] no wonder she’s been looking so happy,” says a source.

INSIDE LETBY’S PINK CELL

Former neonatal nurse Lucy Letby has been denied permission to appeal her convictions nine months after being found guilty of murdering seven babies and attempting to kill another six.

In a case that shocked the world, the former neonatal nurse was found to have killed five boys and two girls in her care while working at the Countess of Chester hospital in 2015 and 2016.

Last August, when she was found guilty, Letby became the third woman alive in the UK to be handed a whole-life order, meaning she can never be paroled. Her application to appeal, already rejected in January, was based on a claim that the original judge for her case had wrongly refused applications made on her behalf during the trial.

Letby, 34, is also due to face a retrial later this month on a single count of attempted murder of a newborn girl.

Despite this, the serial killer nurse – described as “beige” and “average” by police – maintains her innocence.

In December, when she was officially struck off the nursing register, the deciding panel heard that she did not accept that she was “guilty of any of the allegations” in the submitted paperwork.

Letby’s parents John, 77, and Susan, 63, and her best friend Dawn Howe are still convinced of her innocence.

CONVICTED MURDERER

Throughout their daughter’s 10-month trial, the Letbys were a constant presence in court, while neighbours on the comfortable cul-de-sac, where they’ve lived since the convicted murderer was little, said they had become virtual recluses from the moment of her shocking arrest in July 2018.

“I did it, take me instead!” Letby’s mother is reported to have wailed at the arresting officers at the time in a last desperate bid to protect her only child.

Dawn, too, refuses to believe Letby committed the crimes, saying, “Unless Lucy turned around and said I’m guilty, I’ll never believe that she’s guilty.”

Support for the serial killer nurse has come from outside her close circle too. Statistics professor and academic Richard Gill has made repeated claims that the criminal investigation into Letby made mistakes in handling statistical evidence, and on his website he writes that he believes her case was a “major miscarriage of justice”.

Last week UK MP David Davis spoke in parliament about a recent piece in the New Yorker, which challenged Letby’s verdict but was blocked from publication in the UK, reportedly due to a court order.

CHILLING NOTES FROM LETBY

It was Letby’s colleagues who initially voiced concern that she might be behind the unusually high number of deaths on the neonatal ward where she worked.

During police searches of her three-bedroom house – where her bedroom was decorated with multiple fluffy toys and fairy lights – a number of tiny chilling notes were discovered.

On one was written, “I don’t deserve to live. I killed them on purpose because I’m not good enough to care for them.”

In another, she admitted, “I am evil I did this.”

Letby was not present at her sentencing, with the judge noting this was “one final act of wickedness from a coward”.

She is reportedly now being housed in the women’s-only Bronzefield prison, once home to serial killers Rose West and Joanna Dennehy.

According to The Sun, Letby is receiving around-the-clock protection, with an insider revealing that, “She seems to be being treated with kid gloves because of who she is.”

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The 23-year-old and her partner Joseph Salerno are pregnant with their first child together.

On April 3rd, Sophie uploaded a post on Instagram announcing the beautiful news alongside some adorable photos of her and Joseph cradling her growing baby bump.

“The greatest gift of all coming in September! ,” she wrote in her caption.

Friends, family and supporters were quick to shower the mum-to-be with love and congratulations in the comment section.

“This is truly the most beautiful news ever! So happy for you both! Your little one will be surrounded by so much love ,” one person wrote.

“I don’t know you personally but the joy I felt reading this – I wanted to say the biggest and most heartfelt congratulations ,” another shared.

“Oh Sophie, you have been a part of our consciousness since you were little. I have followed your recovery from each tragedy along your journey. My wife and I were shocked by your life experiences but the resilience and strength shown by you and your family. You darling, are a superhero and now an inspirational mum. Congratulations we are all thrilled for you both.”

Recently, Sophie shared a 22-week update on her pregnancy journey, taking to Instagram to share some insights into how she’s been doing.

“My gosh, what a journey it has been until now. This little bundle is moving around so much and definitely keeping their mama awake at night!! To feel the movement inside is a feeling of pure love and joy. It is a feeling that I will forever treasure,” the mum-to-be wrote.

“This recent part of the journey has taught me how to slow down and nurture my body more than ever before. I am loving all that you have already changed in me, my little one. Less than half way until we meet ”.

Sophie and her partner Joseph have known each other since they were six years old, but didn’t start dating until after graduating school.

The pair took their relationship to the next level and became engaged on Valentine’s Day in 2023. 

“She has always been the strongest person I’ve ever known. I could tell from our first handshake, a very strong grip,” Joseph told The Australian Women’s Weekly. “Strong, confident and generous, those three words best describe Sophie. That’s what I see when I’m with her.”

Sophie echoed Joseph’s sentiments about her fiance saying, “Honestly, Joseph is the most open and accepting person I’ve ever met.”

“He just understands and jumps in when I need help. I never have to ask or explain. It’s an absolute honour to be marrying him.”

Sophie Delezio has had a difficult life, having undergone more than 100 operations since a car crashed into her Sydney daycare centre when she was a toddler.

But her strength and her smile have never wavered.

“She has had to be determined and strong all her life. After everything that she has endured in the past 15 years, her just being alive is a testament to how determined she really is,” Sophie’s father Ron told The Weekly.

Sophie and Joseph bought their first home together shortly before their engagement last year, and now the love-birds are taking the next step in their relationship and welcoming their own bundle of joy.

Congratulations to the parents-to-be!

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It definitely didn’t look like your average business meeting.

But sitting on plastic chairs in my driveway with gin and tonics in our hands, my friend Jo, 39, and I were brainstorming.

“How do you feel about sex toys?” Jo asked.

“In a business or pleasurable sense?” I grinned.

It was March 2020, and our hometown of Mount Maunganui, NZ, like the rest of the world, was in COVID lockdown.

A socially distanced drink with Jo was one of the highlights of my day, and it was a great way to combine business and pleasure.

We were both entrepreneurs.

I’d launched a sportswear business after finishing my uni degree and Jo had created her own personalised cookie company after having her two sons, Jake, 16, and Arlo, six, allowing her to work from home.

We’d often talked about collaborating, and with no end in sight to lockdown, we had plenty of time to come up with ideas.

“There’s a popular sex toy that keeps popping up on my Instagram feed,” Jo explained. “But the design is awful. It looks so ugly.”

She showed me and I agreed.

“Women want toys that are cute and feminine,” she said.

“And not to have to walk into a seedy sex shop or scroll through hundreds of models on a website to get one!” I agreed.

Just like that, we’d found a gap in the market.

And the more we researched, the more we fell in love with our idea.

Especially when a friend of mine confessed she’d never pleasured herself until she was 25 years old.

“It was never talked about!” she said.

And it was true. Conversations around self-pleasure were always male-centred and the more we investigated, the more we realised most sex toys were marketed with a male gaze in mind.

“There’s so much shame around female sexual pleasure,” I said to Jo. “I can’t wait to eradicate it!”

It took us a year to create a website and an Instagram for Girls Get Off – Jo’s fabulous suggestion for our brand name – and get our first toy made.

We started with one to keep it simple.

‘Missy’ was a small, sleek, pink clitoral stimulator. We knew women would love her.

When we launched in March 2021, we started doing daily giveaways on Instagram to get the word out.

Soon, the orders were absolutely flooding in.

Where has Missy been all my life? one customer asked.

We knew we were on to something.

When lockdown was over, I moved to Sydney to really make a go of the business, while Jo remained fully involved but living in New Zealand with her family.

One day, to advertise it, I dressed up as a labia and went down to various big beaches in Sydney with a boombox and a sign, asking women to show me their best sexy dance in exchange for a free vibrator!

As women young and older twerked and jiggled their bits for us, we handed out free sex toys like they were going out of fashion!

Within 18 months, we’d launched another four toys, as well as lube, wipes and an adult book.

To date, we’ve sold 25,000 Missys and thousands of our other products.

We’re just about to launch a brand-new model and we know women will love her.

It’s been a pleasure to help women find theirs!

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All eyes are on newsrooms across the country after rumours first surfaced weeks ago that Seven Sydney’s long-time 6pm anchor Mark Ferguson may well be axed to make way for the network’s winning weekend team, Michael Usher and Angela Cox – a report that has Peter Overton and his loving wife Jessica Rowe feeling concerned.

TIME FOR CHANGE

According to one newspaper report, Seven’s power-hitters have “warmed” to the idea of replacing Fergo with a double-header, with an industry insider revealing that the move has got Nine’s news veteran Pete wondering if he might be next to get the flick or forced to have a co-anchor.

“It makes sense to put in a reliable duo like Michael [Usher] and Ange [Cox] to go head-to-head with long-time ratings winner Pete [Overton] – look how quick Tom Steinfort and Alicia Loxley have proven in a matter of a few months that they’re a resounding success for Nine’s nightly Melbourne 6pm bulletin,” the insider shares exclusively with Woman’s Day.

Such is the extraordinary success of Tom and Alicia in Melbourne that industry pundits now believe it’s only a matter of time before Nine Sydney moves toward a double act too.

“Pete has been solo at that desk for 15 years and like a good wine, at 58 he just seems to get better with age – but big bosses always have one eye on what their competitors are doing. For now, management will be doing everything to assure Pete that he’s safe – but he’s right to be feeling worried,” explains the insider.

“There is the argument that if they win the ratings year after year with just one newsreader, then why change it, but Pete would be worried all the same,” says the insider.

CRISIS OF CONFIDENCE

“But knowing Pete, if this is how the industry is shifting, then he will adapt – if he wants to remain current, he’ll have to adjust and go with the flow.”

And behind the scenes, it’s Pete’s devoted wife Jess who will be talking him down from this crisis of confidence.

“Jess is always the ultimate wing-woman and has learned from her own highs and lows how to wade through these sorts of challenges. She and Pete have a special bond – if she needs propping up, he’s right at her side. And in this instance, she’d be telling him no matter what, he will always be her number one.

She knows he doesn’t deserve to be out of a job, or replaced by someone who has far less experience. He’s one of the most trusted news anchors in Australia so Nine would be crazy to let him go – he’s got another decade in him at least!”

Adding to their woes is the fact that Pete has been missing from screens lately due to a hip replacement. “It’s given Jess a wake-up call seeing her Pete, who is the family’s protector and tower of strength, all of a sudden so vulnerable – and now there’s this question over his job security.

“But whatever happens they’ll come through it all stronger than ever – that’s just the way they are.”

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I was glad for the chance to get my steps in while 
I recorded my lines. Later that day, I planned to use 
it as a voiceover for a fitness-themed video I was creating for TikTok.

It was 8.30am and only 
a few people were around. I was relieved there wouldn’t be any distractions.

Confidently, I started to say the first line.

A moment later, seemingly out of nowhere, I felt something hit my face.

Have I been punched? I thought in shock.

A blurry black-and-white form shot straight across my line of vision.

I need to get out of here, 
I panicked.

Feeling shaken, I hurried back to my parked car.

Once safely inside, I checked my phone.

Did I catch what happened on video? I wondered.

To my shock, I had. I’d captured the exact moment a large and angry bird had swooped me!

It was November 2023, and it suddenly dawned on me that magpie swooping season was in full swing.

Oddly, I’d never seen magpies in this area, much less along the promenade.

It’s one of the reasons I was happy to stroll there – I’ve got a huge fear of birds.

With shaking hands, I sent the video to my mum, Summah, 44.

Oh my God! Are you okay? she messaged back.

By now, the shock was wearing off.

My left eye is starting to hurt, I texted back.

Mum told me to go and have a look at it, so I headed to a nearby public toilet.

Looking in the mirror, 
I was surprised.

It looks fine, I thought.

I drove straight home, still feeling a bit shaken by what had happened.

A few hours later, my partner, Jackson, 25, got in.

“Why are you home so early?” he asked.

I handed him my phone.

“Check this out,” I said.

He played it through once. Then, a second time, which he slowed down.

Watching with him, 
I shrieked. I could barely believe what I was seeing.

As the bird swooped, it had actually lodged its entire beak in my eye socket!

Waves of revulsion and disgust hit me. I felt like I was going to throw up.

Immediately, 
I searched online:
What diseases do birds carry?

The list on the screen was horrible.

The first result showed birds and humans can transfer influenza, mites, and E coli or salmonella infections to each other.

I felt myself spiralling.

“Is my eye going to fall out?” I wailed.

“I think you better go to the hospital,” Jackson said.

My eye hurt more than it had earlier, and it felt really irritated.

It’s redder as well, I thought, rechecking it.

Still, I knew it would take ages to get seen at our local hospital’s emergency department, so I decided to wait and see how it looked the next morning.

Throughout the evening, I continued to flush my eyes with warm water. Each time I did, I felt the irritation lessen a bit.

The next day, I wasn’t in any pain or discomfort.

It feels fine, I thought, thankfully.

As a fitness and health influencer I’ve got 200,000 followers on TikTok.

Wanting to raise awareness of swooping, I decided to share the video on my social media account.

I also spoke about how I suffer from ornithophobia, an extreme fear of birds.

Since posting the video, it has received more than six million views and over 8000 comments.

I’d never leave the house again, wrote one person, adding, My fear of birds is already unreasonable but nope after that.

Many comments were also really supportive.

Lots of people said while the video was hard to watch, they were glad I hadn’t lost my eye.

Right now, I want to avoid exercising outdoors or anywhere near where the attack happened. For the moment, I’m using the treadmill in my home.

If I do need to go outside, I’m extra careful.

I hope to return to the waterfront in time, but I’ll stay closer to the water than the trees.

And one thing’s for sure, I’ll no longer go on any walks without a hat and my sunnies for protection!

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“I’ve met some people who have been helped by the Salvos, and they’ve definitely had a positive impact on their lives,” he tells Woman’s Day in an exclusive interview on the eve of The Salvos annual Red Shield Appeal.

“The people I met were at various stages of the help they needed from The Salvos. Some were just learning what it was like to be helped and encouraged to try and fix their lives.”

LIFESAVING WORK

“Others had been there for a while and were quite comfortable about the fact they were going forward in the care of the Salvos. And still others were about to leave and go and have a crack on their own because they had been repaired, for want of a better word.”

Ray, who this year notches 35 years playing loveable ‘Alf Stewart’ on Home And Away and has no immediate plans to hang up his Akubra, acknowledges he’s had a fortunate life. But he also admits that he didn’t always know where the next meal was coming from.

“I haven’t [needed The Salvos] touch wood. And that’s a bit of good luck more than anything,” he says, admitting that early in his career he lived pay cheque to pay cheque just like so many Aussies are forced to do today.

It’s a big part of why he loves The Salvos and the work they do to help people doing it tough. He’s visited their treatment and outreach centres to see first-hand just what lifesaving work they do.

“It just seems to me that whenever there has been any sort of crisis, any sort of drama, anything where people were in need, The Salvos are always there,” Ray says.

THOSE IN NEED

“The Salvos are such a fair dinkum, straight up and down charity that really does help people out there. And while things are tough for everybody at the moment, whatever you can afford to give, please give to the Salvos.

“It doesn’t stay with the Salvos. It’s given on and passed onto people who have a need in the community. I find it very difficult to say no to the Salvos, and I never have! I’d just encourage people to do that – to support the Salvos.”

“I’M A THIRD-GENERATION SALVO!”

Miriam Gluyas had her heart set on becoming a professional golfer until she encountered an older woman who grew up in foster care. She had never experienced a loving family Christmas.

“I call it my defining moment,” shares Miriam who is now the head of The Salvation Army and responsible for 17,000 officers and 8000 employees in 400 centres around Australia – that provide help to millions of Aussies.

“She told us the story of being born and above her crib was no name. No-one ever wanted her, and she went from foster family to foster family and never had a real Christmas.

“We invited her to lunch and gave her some little gifts, and she just cried. That was my defining moment in life. I thought I never wanted someone to go without … the Salvation Army has to be there for anyone in need.”

Miriam grew up steeped in a tradition of service with parents and three grandparents who were devoted Salvos. With the current cost-of-living crisis impacting millions with poverty, and homelessness and domestic violence on the rise, she is asking Australians to dig deep this year if they can.

Visit www.salvationarmy.org.au and help the Salvos deliver food, shelter and services.  The doorknock appeal runs from May 25-26.

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I’d been experiencing dizzy spells, exhaustion and terrible moods.

Aged 40, I had three kids under 10, and I wanted to be the best mum to them, and wife to my husband, Clive.

After lots of back and 
forth with doctors looking 
for an answer, one had recommended a glucose tolerance test.

And now, the results were surprising.

I wasn’t overweight, but I was hypoglycaemic and pre-diabetic.

The doctor asked me to list the foods I ate over a day.

“Some days I’ll demolish half a Sara Lee cheesecake for breakfast and a packet of biscuits in the afternoon,” I confessed. “Chocolate is my weakness. I can eat an entire block before coming to my senses.”

Saying it out loud, a terrible thought entered my mind: I’m a sugar addict.

I discovered the benefit of adding more protein, which helped keep me fuller longer.

A small amount of fresh fruit helped with sweet cravings.

Months later, tests showed steady blood sugar.

My energy had returned, and I was exercising.

A year on, I embraced a more moderate approach.

I would have two squares of dark chocolate every day and when I went out for a meal I’d have half a glass of wine or strawberries and fresh cream for dessert.

Then, aged 53, I was in the US with Clive, a property developer, for a business trip.

By chance, I found myself chatting with a woman who introduced me to a natural, sugar-free alternative – Xylitol.

“You can bake with it and enjoy the foods you love,” she said, offering me a few sachets to try.

Back home, I made lamingtons, cheesecakes, chocolate mousse and ice- cream. They were delicious!

Eighteen months later, in 2002, I brought a small shipment to Australia.

From there, I built my business SweetLife to distribute Xylitol across the country and share recipes and healthy living tips.

I hadn’t worked for 25 years as I’d been a stay-at-home mum, but I taught myself to use a computer, spent three years taking business classes at night and began doing 90-hour weeks.

SweetLife is now in its 22nd year and is a big success.

I’ve had the opportunity to speak to thousands about transforming my health and help them with theirs.

“The healthier and fitter you are, the more you’ll enjoy life,” I tell them.

Today, I’m 76, a grandmother of four, and I’m very fit, thanks to tennis, yoga and weekly Pilates.

And I’m as happy to wear a bikini on Perth’s Cottesloe Beach as I was 40 years ago.

People are always surprised when I tell them my age.

If they ask how I stay looking so youthful, I say I’ve been sugar free for 35 years.

This year, Clive and I will celebrate 50 years of marriage – and I can credit part of its longevity to my commitment to being the best I can be.

Age is just a number, but AGE is also my mantra for living: A is for attitude, G is for gratitude, and E is for ‘ego-tude’.

I made the last word up, but we all need a little healthy ego, it’s what drives us to be our best!

‘Honestly’ Sugar Free Baking is available now at sweetlife.com.au

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But Molly’s son will now grow up without her because, in the early hours of April 22, the 28-year-old was found dead inside her home in Forbes, NSW. Her ex-partner has been charged with her murder.

“I can’t put into words the effect Molly had on everyone’s life. She was a beautiful person. Her mum was her best friend, she was so close to her dad and her son was her world from the moment he was born,” Molly’s close friend Jacinda Acheson, 41, tells Woman’s Day.

MOLLY’S LAW

Only three weeks before Molly’s death, the same man was charged with stalking and rape. Despite police opposition, a registrar in Dubbo granted him bail and issued an apprehended violence order (AVO). The AVO banned the man from going within 100 metres of Molly’s home, the childcare centre where she worked or Forbes.

But the apprehended violence order apparently made no difference.

“Only three weeks before [she died], Molly had the courage to tell police what she’d been going through,” says Jacinda. “The police did everything they could to protect Molly, but the first time he fronted court in Dubbo, a female registrar allowed him bail.”

Two weeks later, the man fronted court again and was bailed again.

“If these perpetrators are given bail, they must be electronically monitored so police can see when they break the conditions of their AVO. If this had been in place for Molly, I think she’d still be here,” says Jacinda.

Molly’s family and friends are now calling for “Molly’s Law” – a system that ensures authorities and victims know the whereabouts of bailed perpetrators, facing domestic violence charges.

“How else can victims feel safe if they don’t know where these monsters are?” says Jacinda.

As the number of women killed by partners or ex-partners continues to rise, grieving families, friends and communities across Australia are saying enough is enough and taking to the streets to protest.

In the first four months of this year, 28 women were killed by violence, according to research by Counting Dead Women Australia, a national register that has verified and kept count since 2012. This is a sharp increase compared to the same time last year.

NSW Premier Chris Minns just proposed tougher bail laws for “serious” domestic violence offenders, with legislation expected to be introduced to parliament this week. Jacinda reacted to the news, saying, “It is too late for Molly and the 100s of victims before her. Announcing these changes is a great step towards change. Now they need to be implemented.”

The Australian government has announced $952.2 million will be spent over the next five years to establish the Leaving Violence Program. The program includes a $5000 package of cash, goods and services to help victim-survivors fleeing violent relationships.

Janet Jukes, CEO of Refuge Victoria, says the investment is welcome but more crisis accommodation is needed. The organisation is on the frontlines of women escaping some of the worst family violence.

In an average year, Refuge Victoria supports more than 600 women and children, but a lack of beds means about 70 per cent of women assessed as high-risk return to the homes they escape.

“The women who come to us need to hide from someone who is pursuing them – they need help, so they aren’t killed or harmed. It’s hugely concerning that we don’t have enough refuge beds,” says Janet.

As well as providing secure accommodation, the service helps women “clean” their phones and electronic devices, so they can’t be traced by a violent ex.

After decades in the field, Janet hopes the growing focus on the number of violent deaths will achieve change. “Society is outraged and that is a hopeful sign of change,” she says.

BROKEN SYSTEM

Dr Vincent Hurley passionately voiced his outrage when he appeared on the ABC’s Q+A. The criminologist, ex-NSW police officer and long-time advocate for stronger measures to end domestic violence, says toxic politics are costing lives.

He says the attitudes of police towards domestic violence have vastly improved since he was an officer in the early 1980s, but the legal system is letting down women and children.

“In the 1980s, if someone committed an armed hold-up, whether someone was physically injured or not, the offender had no presumption for bail. Why can’t we do that for men with a history of crimes of domestic violence?” he says.

“I’d like to see perpetrators unable to apply to have their bail reviewed for a week, so women have breathing space to get out of danger. If a perpetrator is then released, they should be referred to a service like the Salvos or Uniting Church so they can vent, cool down and get a reality check. The latest government funding is welcome, but it’s a drop in the ocean.”

Jacinda says a weak and broken justice system is letting down women like Molly.

“Molly won’t see her little boy’s weekend football games, his first try of the season, she won’t celebrate his birthdays and she won’t be there on his wedding day,” she says.

“When Molly was brave enough to ask for help, she was killed. Our bail laws and justice system have Molly’s blood on their hands. The system utterly failed her.”

If you or someone you know is impacted by sexual assault or family violence, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit 1800RESPECT.org.au. In an emergency, call 000.

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He was a priest at the parish of East Devonport, Tasmania and had invited the local teenage boys out for a fishing trip. My school mates had met him while playing badminton at the church hall.

It was 1979, and I was 13 years old.

As the boys cast their lines, Hawkins approached me.

“What’s your dad do, Steve?” he asked.

My dad, Ted, had left when I was five, leaving my mum, Annette, to raise my siblings and me.

“I haven’t got a dad,” I told Hawkins.

His face lit up.

I was overcome with seasickness but when we returned to the rectory, Hawkins handed me a beer.

“This’ll settle your tummy,” he explained.

Mum’d never let me do this, I thought taking a sip.

“My mum’s pretty strict,” 
I told the priest.

“I’d like to meet her,” he responded.

That week, he came over to introduce himself to Mum.

“He’s charming,” she said to me afterwards. “It’ll be good for you to spend 
time with him.”

Hangouts with Hawkins became frequent. He’d take us boys on boat trips, hunting or snorkelling.

Sometimes, it’d just be the two of us and he’d buy me gifts, like a wetsuit and goggles. I felt like I was his favourite.

Over time, Hawkins got more familiar with me.

“Geez, you’ve got a nice little arse,” he’d remark, smacking my bum.

“Get stuffed you dirty old man!” I’d quip.

I didn’t like it when he touched me, but I had no other father figure for comparison.

It must be what all dads do with their kids, I assumed.

Father Hawkins had 
a reputation at school and other kids warned me to stay away from him. But I was convinced he was a good guy. After all, he was a priest.

Whenever he was drunk though, I remained on high alert as he’d try to sneak up and grab my genitals.

At school, I felt like an adult in a kid’s world, and I went from an A-grade student to the class clown.

Halfway through Year 9, I dropped out. Soon after, Hawkins was transferred by the diocese to Triabunna on the east coast.

“Why doesn’t Steve come live with me,” he suggested to Mum. “I’ll help find him a job.”

“Great idea!” Mum said, fully trusting him.

She did everything she could to provide good opportunities for us.

Hawkins got me work at 
a fish factory and didn’t mind when I brought mates home – he even encouraged it.

Every perk of my life at the rectory had a dark underside I couldn’t comprehend.

Hawkins would let me drive his HQ Holden through the paddock next door, but only if I sat on his lap first and let him rub my stomach.

At night, he’d beg me to come to bed with him, but 
I always refused.

Once, I came home to 
find him hosting a booze-up with 10 other blokes from 
the ministry.

One of them approached me in the kitchen.

“Why don’t we go up to 
the bedroom and have 
a play?” he slurred.

I told him to get stuffed.

“Oh that’s right, you’ve been Garth’s boy for years,” he smiled. It sounded to me like Hawkins had been telling the other priests that he was having sex with me.

He’s not a great guy at all! 
I finally accepted. I need to get out of here.

I moved back to Devonport soon after and cut all ties with Hawkins. Desperate to move on from that chapter of my life, I kept silent about Hawkins’ actions.

It wasn’t until 1996, aged 30, that we reconnected when I asked him to be 
my wedding celebrant.

I believe now this was a subconscious desire to show him he hadn’t stopped me turning out okay.

After the service, I gave him a bottle of scotch as a thank you gift. He drank half of it before the reception.

I cringed when my mate invited him to make a speech.

“I met Steve before he had any pubic hair,” Hawkins slurred into the microphone.

My guests went into stunned silence.

“I used to wonder if he took his jeans to the fitter,” he continued, “they were always so tight around his arse!”

My dad, who’d since come back into my life, rushed up to me afterwards.

“What did he do to you?” he asked me, alarmed.

“It’s nothing to worry about,” I assured him.

But I began to wonder if my time with Hawkins was connected to the PTSD I’d battled since my youth.

Sadly, this PTSD persisted, and I was unable to make my marriage last beyond a year.

After the separation, I told a close friend about Hawkins.

“You could always speak to the police about it,” she said.

When I did, my sole testimony wasn’t considered enough for an arrest.

The media, however, caught wind of my story and wanted to tell it. To share my story publicly, I had to fight a law which prevented victims being named.

I can’t let Hawkins take away my voice again, I thought.

Successfully gaining an exemption, my story went public and other survivors who’d been abused by Hawkins came forward. Some were guys I’d brought to the house.

I felt devastated.

In 2003, with seven complainants, aged 13 to 17 at the time, Hawkins was arrested in South Australia.

The following year, Garth Stephen Hawkins, 58, pleaded guilty to one count of indecent assault, three counts of sexual intercourse with a young person under the age of 17, four counts of maintaining a sexual relationship with a young person, and two counts of having carnal knowledge against the order of nature.

He was sentenced to seven-and-a-half years in jail, where he went on to change his name by deed poll to Robin Goodfellow.

The court process brought vindication of my trauma, but the sentence seemed minor compared to the lives he’d destroyed.

That year, I established an organisation, Beyond Abuse, to provide survivors with therapy and legal advice I wish I’d received sooner to bring perpetrators like Hawkins to justice.

Since then, I’ve met my fiancée Wanny, and helped many survivors fight suppression orders so they can get their voice back.

Sadly, paedophiles are 
still among us. But when survivors share their stories, it educates communities 
on the warning signs of grooming and abuse.

By learning these, you may save another child from having their life destroyed.

For support, call 1800 737 732 (Aust) or 0800 88 33 00 (NZ).

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“Tay, you shouldn’t come here,” my mum said when she caught me.

It was 2010 and even at 10, I knew my dad did drugs.

Addicted to meth, he slept all day, was always tired and could never concentrate during a conversation.

Strangers visited our house at odd hours and we moved around a lot, without any explanation.

Dad often fought with his own parents, but they were the ones who took me and my brothers, John, seven, and Nathan, four, to school recitals and sports events.

“You need to grow up,” Grandma said to my parents bitterly one day. “You both need to get jobs.”

My father was 16 when I was born, and my mother 18.

Neither of them finished high school.

Every weekend, they dropped us off at our grandparents’ house.

“Why can’t you stay with us?” I often asked Mum, but her reply was always the same.

“I need to go away with Dad for a bit,” she said.

I loved my parents but also hated them for abandoning us.

While I could see they loved each other, they fought all the time, too.

Often, we came home from school to find them sulking or shouting at each other.

When this happened, I took my brothers out to play with Nerf guns or we rode our bikes around the neighbourhood.

Only my best friend, Angelica, knew what my home life was like. I kept it a secret from everyone else at school.

In April 2012, our brother Blayte was born.

I wondered how my parents would provide for him, but we all adored Blayte and took him under our wing.

One day, when I was 12, my cousins and I were at a bowling alley when my Aunty Kelly arrived.

“Taydam, I need a word with you,” she said.

“What happened?” I asked.

We stepped outside and she handed me the phone.

“I’m going to be going away for a while…” my dad told me.

I began to cry.

He’d been caught dealing drugs and was going to jail.

At first, we visited Dad regularly in prison, but after a few months, Mum stopped going and started seeing someone else.

John, Nathan and I went to live with our grandparents.

When Dad got out of prison two years later, Mum got back together with him.

“This is a bad idea,” I said to her. “Let Dad sort himself out first.”

She didn’t listen to me and soon I noticed she’d lost weight, had dark circles around her eyes and was always angry.

“Are you doing drugs?” I asked her.

“Of course not!” she said, but I knew she was lying.

I felt so ashamed that both my parents were addicts.

I hated myself and wondered what I’d ever 
do with my life.

Then, when I was 14, a woman approached me at 
a shopping centre.

“You should consider modelling,” she said, handing me a card.

I asked my grandma what she thought.

“Give it a go,” she urged, and helped me get an ABN.

Modelling gave me confidence and I realised I had a choice.

I could choose to feel sorry for myself or I could make a go of my life. I decided on the latter.

In my final year of high school, I did a journalism course and loved it so much I enrolled in a Bachelor of Journalism and Film at the University of South Australia when I left school. At uni, I interned at a community radio station which offered me a regular gig.

Then, I was approached by George, the founder of The Adelaide Set – an online youth platform.

He gave me a job interviewing local politicians and musicians for their radio show.

In October 2020, George, 30, and I were attending an event together.

We’d become close so I decided to tell him about my rocky childhood and the problems my parents had.

I was nervous about how he’d react to what I told him, but he smiled at me.

“Look at how amazing you turned out regardless of your situation,” he said. “You should be proud.”

“You’re right,” I said, grinning at him. “I am proud of myself.”

After four months working together, George and I became a couple.

He encouraged me when I started an Instagram account advising businesses on how to grow their social media output.

I also started running online social media courses.

My career has gone from strength to strength, and in October last year George and I got engaged.

Over the years, I’ve met people from wealthy backgrounds with family members who are addicts. It taught me that addiction doesn’t discriminate between rich and poor. It’s a health issue.

Everyone has a choice in how they react to life’s challenges.

When I was a teenager I felt a lot of shame around my family situation, but now I’m proud of what I’ve achieved despite all that.

My brother John, 20, is now working with horses and living with his girlfriend. Nathan, 17, and Blayte, 11, are still at school.

While I’m not close to my parents, I forgave them a long time ago.

I hope my story inspires others to keep going. Life can be beautiful, no matter your upbringing.

For support, call Lifeline on 13 11 14 (Aust) or 0800 543 354 (NZ).

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Since his recent TikTok debut, the ’90s Aussie TV favourite has won a legion of new young foodie fans. They love his crazy suspenders, walrus moustache and fun-loving chuckle, not to mention
his all-round kitchen skills.

“Hahahahahaha,” chortles the former Ten lifestyle star, astonished by his latter-day hunky status. “I reckon they need new glasses, these people. You know it’s been funny, a lot of them say I look exactly the same, that I haven’t aged a bit. God, my hair’s white these days! But I will take all the compliments, no problem.”

According to some online commentators, Huey is a suave “silver fox” whose “smooth one-liners make him a king” as he “continues to age like a fine wine”.

SOCIAL MEDIA SENSATION

This isn’t exactly what the former Healthy, Wealthy And Wise presenter expected when his 22-year-old daughter Charlotte urged him to give video sharing platform TikTok a go. From his kitchen at home in Melbourne, they filmed a short introductory segment and hit send.

Within 48 hours, their first effort notched up more than 500,000 views and about 60,000 followers. Now Huey’s first three “warts and all” posts have received almost 1 million hits – probably even more by the time you read this!

“Bloody hell, I nearly fell off my bloody chair when Charlotte told me,” exclaims the Kiwi-born chef, restaurateur, author, TV personality and one-time folk singer.

“It’s been interesting, that’s the word I suppose you would use, but it’s been flattering. Very exciting and interesting and flattering. I really couldn’t believe it.”

Huey might be blown away by his new audience but he’s also equally astonished by how many past admirers have been in contact to welcome his return.

“We got all these emails that say, ‘We dodged out of school to watch you. We rushed home from school,’ and they had grown up with me… Some of them said they even took sickies to tune in!

“A lot of them reckon I taught them to cook at home – so I guess it’s my fault if they’re doing it badly!” he says with another giant guffaw that threatens to snap his fruit-patterned braces. “But it’s nice to know I haven’t been forgotten.”

One woman told him she thought he was dead. She was sure she’d attended his state funeral. “Fair go, I can’t imagine a Kiwi like me ever making a state funeral,” quips the ever-affable Huey. “It turned out to be Big Kev [McQuay], King of Cleaning, who died in 2005.”

Unlike some other plus-sized celebrities, the host of Huey’s TV Dinner, Huey’s Cooking Adventures and Huey’s Kitchen is very much alive and kicking. What’s the secret of his long-lived popularity?

“I remember Gavan Disney, the production guru from Healthy, Wealthy And Wise telling me, ‘Forget all the fancy sh*t. We want uncomplicated food that people can actually cook at home without over-the-top ingredients or great culinary skills.’

KEEPING IT SIMPLE

“And that’s the exact response we’re getting. I did a TikTok recipe for homemade mayo – how simple is that – and it got 400,000 hits. My mustard vinaigrette video is booming along quite happily too.

“I’m not knocking MasterChef, but it’s very rare to get a recipe on there that you rush into the kitchen to make it straight away. But my audience will knock up a simple soup or salad. That’s the stuff they want to know about, and that’s exactly what Charlotte told me. She’s done a great job.”

Huey fondly recalls some words of advice given to him by the late, great Bert Newton, when he was presenting Good Morning Australia’s cooking segments.

“You know you’re past your prime when someone comes up to you and says, ‘Didn’t you used to be Huey?’ That’s what Bert reckoned. Well, no one has done that to me as yet, thank God!”

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