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EXCLUSIVE: Olivia Newton-John reveals why she’s so grateful for her life and family after everything she’s been through

ā€œIā€™m grateful for life.ā€
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In an exclusive interview from her farm in California, Dame Olivia Newton-John talks about her bonds with family and nature, and how these two helped her through the dark days of the COVID crisis in the United States.

Olivia Newton-John sits cross-legged on a couch the colour of a dusky pink poppy.

Afternoon light filters through windows, beyond which lie the fields and coops and barnyard animals of her storybook-pretty Californian farm.

Raven, her German Shepherd, sleeps peacefully on the carpet. Her husband, John Easterling, pops into frame to say hello down the Zoom lens, touches her affectionately on the shoulder and moves on to tend to the medicinal cannabis and other herbs that he grows on the property.

Itā€™s a lazy, warm late summer afternoon, and it feels like siesta time (at least Raven thinks so), but Olivia has set this time aside to chat with The Weekly.

ā€œIā€™ve tried to turn this into something positive, because itā€™s given us all the opportunity to find out who we are, who the family is and get down to the really important thingsā€ Olivia on living in lockdown.

(Alana Landsberry)

ā€œIā€™m okay,ā€ she says in answer to the obvious question, and she looks more than well ā€“ rosy-cheeked, bright eyed, relaxed; all easy, open conversation and unabashed smiles.

That said, Olivia concedes that living through the COVID outbreak in the United States hasnā€™t always been easy.

She was admitted to hospital briefly earlier this year ā€“ a temporary road bump on the wellness journey that has seen her through a number of bouts with cancer since her first diagnosis in 1992.

Sheā€™d rather not go into the details of that most recent hospital visit but she has fully recovered now, and she says it helped her to understand how frightening COVID has been for people with compromised health or immune systems.

ā€œI was very afraid at the beginning,ā€ she admits.

ā€œI think we all were ā€¦ It was a scary time for everyone because it was unknown ā€¦ I had friends who were in New York high-rises and they couldnā€™t leave, which would have been terrible and frightening.

ā€œI have friends who have gone through COVID and friends who have lost friends. No one has gone unscathed.

ā€œI was lucky to be living outside the city ā€“ Iā€™m grateful for that ā€“ and in my own life, Iā€™ve tried to turn this into something positive, because itā€™s given us all the opportunity to find out who we are, who the family is and get down to the really important things.

ā€œI think we get very distracted, as humans, with all the technology and the stuff thatā€™s going on. But when it comes down to it, the people you love are the most important, and I think itā€™s given us that opportunity to re-bond.

ā€œIā€™ve spent so much of my life on a plane or in a hotel, so to be home for a year and a half is pretty amazing. Itā€™s something Iā€™ve always wanted to do, but I didnā€™t because you kind of get onto a treadmill, and you keep going and going.

ā€œSo, I think itā€™s been a very special time to re-evaluate whatā€™s important to me in my life.ā€

ā€œShe chooses to be positiveā€¦That is so hard. Most people choose the easy way, which is being negative.ā€ Oliviaā€™s daughter Chloe on her mother.

(Alana Landsberry)

Oliviaā€™s daughter, Chloe, now 35, who lives in Oregon with her fiancĆ©, James Driskill, has been to stay twice since the pandemic began, once for three whole months, ā€œwhich was the best,ā€ Olivia says.

Mother and daughter recorded a song, Window in the Wall, while they were together, which carried a message about ā€œfinding weā€™re not so different after allā€ to an ideologically divided America.

Chloe says one of the things she admires most about her mum is her positivity, and her ability to ā€œā€¦ see beauty in everything. She chooses to be positive,ā€ Chloe says.

ā€œThat is so hard. Most people choose the easy way, which is being negative.ā€

Reminded of this, Olivia smiles. ā€œI try to,ā€ she says.

ā€œTo see the beauty and not the ugliness, to see the good and not the bad. Thatā€™s a decision you can make.

ā€œItā€™s very difficult these days to get away from the ugly and the bad, but nature balances you, I feel, because we are part of that. We are part of the natural kingdom.

ā€œAs humans, we think weā€™re separate but weā€™re not. Chloeā€™s father [Matt Lattanzi] once said to me that nature was his church and I thought that was a beautiful description.ā€

Olivia wasnā€™t planning to do any interviews right now, but she agreed to chat with us this month because she has such special memories of the Great Barrier Reef and she feels so deeply about our ā€œlove the planetā€ theme in our October issue.

ā€œI have wonderful memories of the Barrier Reef,ā€ she says. ā€œIt is the most beautiful place, and I have the most beautiful memories of seeing schools of brightly coloured fish under that blue, blue water, and just incredible wildlife.

ā€œItā€™s an experience I cherish, and I hope that we can do something to preserve the reef for future generations because it is exquisite.ā€

Olivia traces her love of nature back to childhood, growing up on the leafy University of Melbourne campus, where her father, Brinley Newton-John, was master of Ormond College (during the war, heā€™d worked in British Intelligence at the top-secret Bletchley Park).

ā€œWhen I was a little girl,ā€ she says, ā€œI used to bring home stray animals. People would dump them in the university grounds because there were lots of trees and bushes where animals could hide.

ā€œSo, from a young age, I used to get really, really upset, and I would rescue these animals and take them to the RSPCA or whatever.

ā€œMum wouldnā€™t let me keep them, which was probably lucky because I would have had 50 dogs! I was always very aware of kindness to animals.

ā€œAfter my parents divorced, Iā€™d wait for my father after school. I would sit under this gorgeous tree in the middle of the driveway, and I used to write stories about birds and trees and the sky.

ā€œI donā€™t know, I just felt very connected to it.ā€

Olivia grew up with a wonder for nature, her mother Irene becoming an early influence

(Alana Landsberry)

Oliviaā€™s mother, Irene Born, was also an early influence.

ā€œMy mum was very observant about nature,ā€ she recalls. ā€œI remember her seeing patterns in clouds and all these things.

ā€œShe used to take us digging for fossils on the weekend, down to Frankston. And she was always very concerned about trees in the Botanical Gardens ā€“ we lived next door to the Gardens and we used to walk there every day.ā€

Irene was also a sustainability trailblazer, years ahead of her time. It was important to her, even back in the 1950s, to tread lightly on the earth.

ā€œShe was a very wise woman,ā€ Olivia explains. ā€œShe loved the environment, cared about recycling ā€“ those were ideas that I grew up with.

ā€œI think people who have lived through a war are more like that. I remember, she would tie up elastic bands [and keep them] and she would roll up paper bags.

ā€œNothing was wasted ā€“ we recycled and re-used everything. I heard this all my life and it is important to me. I really value nature ā€“ above just about everything.ā€

ā€œYou have to believe youā€™ll be okay because your attitude is so important to your healing.ā€ Olivia on her own healing journey.

(Alana Landsberry)

Itā€™s a philosophy that Olivia not only tries to live by day-to-day but has incorporated into her music and her career.

She has made two spectacular nature documentary series ā€“ One World and Wild Life.

There is perhaps no more joyful sight on earth than Olivia riding a white horse across La Camargue in southern France in one of those episodes.

And her 1994 album, Gaia, was both a coming to terms with that first cancer diagnosis and a heartfelt expression of her connection with the earth.

ā€œPerhaps I should release it again,ā€ she suggests.

ā€œIt seems like all the things they talked about and predicted 30 or 40 years ago are happening now ā€¦ Weā€™re having these horrendous storms and fires and the ice caps are melting.

ā€œPeople have known this was coming but we havenā€™t ā€¦ we havenā€™t done anything. Weā€™re all connected, weā€™re all affected. We should try to help however we can.ā€

But even here, Olivia says, sheā€™s hopeful.

ā€œIā€™m always hopeful,ā€ she smiles.

Young people give her hope, the resourcefulness and brilliance of the human mind gives her hope. Has that positivity of hers ever let her down?

ā€œWell, Iā€™ve had quite a few challenges,ā€ she laughs, ā€œbut Iā€™m positive about those too.

ā€œYou have to believe that youā€™ll be okay. I mean, there are times when you go, ā€˜oh gosh, whatā€™s going to happen?ā€™

ā€œBut at the bottom of all that, you have to believe youā€™ll be okay because your attitude is so important to your healing. The body wants to heal naturally.

ā€œIt wants to do that if given the opportunity. I intend to live for a long time and Iā€™m doing everything I can to help other people do the same.ā€

In Oliviaā€™s philosophy, thatā€™s crucial too ā€“ the ability to look beyond your own situation and make a commitment to help others.

ā€œItā€™s very important,ā€ she insists. ā€œAs you get older, you realise youā€™re going to be passing things on.

ā€œAs you get older, you realise youā€™re going to be passing things on. I want to pass on something good and something valuable thatā€™s going to help people.ā€ Olivia on giving back.

(Alana Landsberry)

ā€œI want to pass on something good and something valuable thatā€™s going to help people. So, I think itā€™s a natural progression ā€“ part of being a human ā€“ to want to give back. Itā€™s part of your evolution.ā€

One of the ways Olivia gives back is through her involvement with the Olivia Newton-John Cancer Wellness & Research Centre in Melbourne.

Right now, the team there is getting ready for Oliviaā€™s Walk for Wellness, which is held each year on her birthday ā€“ September 26 ā€“ and raises money to, as she says, ā€œhelp people with cancer to thriveā€.

This year it will celebrate her 73rd birthday, and it will be virtual, in that everyone will walk where they can, locked down or not.

But rest assured Olivia will be walking on the farm, and sheā€™s offered some phenomenal prizes for those who raise the greatest funds, including a virtual fireside chat and a birthday tea with herself.

Olivia has certainly not been idle in lockdown. This past year, she and John have also formed the Olivia Newton-John Foundation, which aims to fund research into plant-based medicine and other holistic and wellness therapies to prevent, treat and cure cancers.

ā€œWeā€™re looking for kinder treatments for cancer,ā€ Olivia says, ā€œusing herbal medicine, because that really is what has kept me doing well.

ā€œWe want to fund scientific research so we can clearly identify which treatments work.ā€

This year also marks the 40th anniversary of the release of Physical, the siren call of the gym junkie generation and the song that completed the transformation (three years after she played Sandy in Grease) of Australiaā€™s sweetheart into an empowered 1980s woman who was not afraid to express her own desires.

To mark the occasion, thereā€™ll be a re-release of the Physical album with bonus tracks, remixes and a video recording of the entire album, replete with Olivia in sweat band, purple tights, tennis gear and sultry, smoky eyeshadow.

Does she look back on that young woman ā€“ all of 32, with a tousled blonde bob, not unlike but messier than Princess Dianaā€™s ā€“ and feel like she was someone else?

ā€œYes, I was a different person then,ā€ she admits.

But she was on a steep learning curve.

ā€œI remember at the time I recorded that song,ā€ she says, ā€œI thought it was great but I got really nervous after Iā€™d finished it.

ā€œI called my manager, Roger Davies [an Aussie who went on to manage Tina Turner and Pink], and said, ā€˜Roger, Iā€™m afraid Iā€™ve gone too far with this song. I think itā€™s too raunchy.ā€™

ā€œHe said, ā€˜Itā€™s too late. Itā€™s gone to radio and itā€™s going up the charts.ā€™ And of course it was one of the biggest songs I ever had. So, sometimes youā€™ve got to let go of the fear and just go with it.ā€

She played Sandy in Grease.

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She doesnā€™t remember now what her parents thought, but she laughs, ā€œIā€™m sure they were tut-tuttingā€.

Nonetheless, she has no regrets because that song gave her the freedom to grow as an artist.

ā€œIt gave me an opportunity to change my image,ā€ she says.

ā€œThey call it reinventing yourself now, but at the time it just meant an opportunity to change genres and it gave me an opportunity to do more rocky music than Iā€™d done before. Iā€™d been more into the ballads and the mellow stuff.

ā€œIt was amazing because with all the controversy that went with it, there also came this opportunity, as is often the way, and I just had to embrace it.

ā€œI was banned in Utah, which was very exciting. You havenā€™t made it until youā€™re banned, right?

ā€œI look back now and think, what was I so worried about? I was so worried about everything. Thatā€™s the beauty of getting older, I guess.

ā€œYou know, when youā€™re 20 or 30, you look at being 50 or 60 as being really old. And then when you get there, you go, ā€˜I get it, I know how you look at meā€™.

ā€œBut because you have more wisdom and youā€™ve lived more, things arenā€™t as difficult as when you were younger. Youā€™re more relaxed, youā€™re able to handle things better.ā€

And perhaps love can be more whole, more fulfilling too.

When Olivia posted a photo to Instagram of her and John kissing under mistletoe, their online community went wild. (It must be said that it came with a tip on the medicinal use of mistletoe.)

Itā€™s been 14 years now since their wedding and Oliviaā€™s fans still love the warmth and the spark between them.

ā€œHeā€™s a very special human being,ā€ Olivia tells The Weekly.

ā€œHeā€™s honest, loving, creative, funny. Heā€™s incredibly intelligent. Iā€™ve learnt so much from him ā€¦ Heā€™s wonderful, he is. I lucked out.ā€

The sun is lower in the sky now than when we began and the light filtering through the windows is golden.

Thereā€™s a cat at the door scratching to be let in and itā€™s almost time for Olivia to feed her horses.

Before we go, of course we must find out about Chloeā€™s wedding.

After a long engagement, she and James were finally set to tie the knot this year but their plans were scarpered by COVID.

ā€œI think she will replan it,ā€ Olivia says, ā€œbut we havenā€™t done it yet.

ā€œSheā€™s got her dress though ā€“ I had that wonderful experience. You think, as a mother, that you want to be there to help pick out the wedding dress and I got to experience that with her.

ā€œIt was just the two of us and we had the place to ourselves ā€“ it was a beautiful boutique in Los Angeles ā€“ and it was very special.ā€

It was one of ā€œoh so many thingsā€ that Olivia feels grateful for right now, from her friends and family to the little bird sanctuary that sheā€™s set up outside her bedroom window.

ā€œI can sit there for hours and watch 10, 20, 30 different kinds of birds come in. Itā€™s so beautiful.ā€

Mostly though, she says, ā€œIā€™m grateful for life. After all Iā€™ve been through, Iā€™m just very grateful that Iā€™m here.ā€

To learn more about Oliviaā€™s Walk for Wellness, visit walkforwellness.com.au

Read this story and more in the October issue of The Australian Womenā€™s Weekly ā€“ on sale now.

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